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Fetlife

Olibvvv

Registered Member
Messages: 32
Reviews: 2
Joined
#5
I’ve met a few women off fetlife
Mostly BBWs, but I like curves
- Jess: first encounter, straight met up and got to fucking. Very open minded and didn’t do anal because she didn’t clean up.
- Megan: busted face, awkward at talking, decent fuck
- Isabelle: great body (she’s a runner, very fit and pushing 40). We met for coffee and had sex in her office, as part of a bet with a coworker (which she clearly won)
- Monica: west coast based that traveled for business here, very open minded and would wine and dine me
Moved somewhere in the west and stopped seeing her since
-Stacy: Greek milf. Say less.
- Megan 2. We matched on tinder but moved to fetlife and met at a club. Had sex in a St. Andrew’s Cross. Very hot. She was kind of a hippie tho. Meh
there’s a few more that I might forget but it’s not an easy fuck, you have to hunt down quality women.
 

Robinma55

Review Contributor
Messages: 156
Reviews: 8
Joined
#6
How do you look? Like what is the search term you look for? Femdom? Slave? Is there one for casual encounters?
I’ve met a few women off fetlife
Mostly BBWs, but I like curves
- Jess: first encounter, straight met up and got to fucking. Very open minded and didn’t do anal because she didn’t clean up.
- Megan: busted face, awkward at talking, decent fuck
- Isabelle: great body (she’s a runner, very fit and pushing 40). We met for coffee and had sex in her office, as part of a bet with a coworker (which she clearly won)
- Monica: west coast based that traveled for business here, very open minded and would wine and dine me
Moved somewhere in the west and stopped seeing her since
-Stacy: Greek milf. Say less.
- Megan 2. We matched on tinder but moved to fetlife and met at a club. Had sex in a St. Andrew’s Cross. Very hot. She was kind of a hippie tho. Meh
there’s a few more that I might forget but it’s not an easy fuck, you have to hunt down quality women.[/QUOTE
 

HKBoytoy

Review Contributor
Messages: 113
Reviews: 7
Joined
#7
I was on it for quite some time. While a few people did contact me, a lot were flakes. Even after all the posts and ads I put out, there were hardly any bites. If you’re really into kink and looking to fully engross yourself into the life, I think it’s a great tool for connecting with folks or trying. But in terms of hooking up with people based on a fetish - it’s just as bad as any other site or dating app - a lot of teases and flakes.

If you’re really a kinkster, I don’t there’s any harm in trying but it’s still hard to connect with folks. I’m pretty vanilla so i could not truly take advantage
 

Orihalcon

Review Contributor
Messages: 259
Reviews: 50
Joined
#9
if you’re trying to use the site to pick up girls casually, virtually impossible. otherwise, it’s a goldmine for kinksters who are actually serious about learning and participating in the scene.
 

tomsayernyc

Registered Member
Messages: 26
Reviews: 2
Joined
#10
I joined FetL but not really my thing. I think it is more for exchange emails, information about kinky things, learning, and so on. Some girls are into online service - not my thing.
 

adamromeo

Registered Member
Messages: 18
Joined
#11
I joined local groups for discussions for fetish & BDSM stuff, but it is not easy to find the right person for meetings. A lot of flakes there.
 

Jerry1967

Registered Member
Messages: 54
Reviews: 1
Joined
#12
Fetlife is really good for finding parties and events to go to. Its a terrible way to meet people online- its designed that way to keep guys from messaging random women and sending dick pics etc. Which still happens anyway.

The way it works is you go to a party in real life and you get people's Fetlife names. Then you message them when you get home. This way they've met you and they're comfortable with you. The site has a listing of parties and events. In NYC there is something almost every night.

Because its a community you can meet people you don't want to have sex with (like guys) as a way to break into a group and find people you do want to have sex with. You still gotta have game.

You can also join some of the online groups, but it takes a lot of time and effort to find what you're looking for that way.
 

JohnJacobJ2

Registered Member
Messages: 137
Reviews: 2
Joined
#14
There was another site where someone had asked for something specific and a member suggested looking on FetLife, but by the sounds of this thread, one would have to really put an effort into being a member of that community to get what one might be looking for. Is that right?

I checked it out and thought the whole site was just kinda poor and confusing.
 

kinkerton4

Registered Member
Messages: 3
Joined
#15
In my experience, not really a great place to hook up so much as engage with kinky ppl on the regular. That being said, I have had some luck on Fet meeting up with a number of ladies over the years (usually multiple times) to try out some new, fun stuff. But I really got into that site while I was on the West Coast so I don't know if the scene here is different. It's more like trying to hook up over Facebook but at lease some type of sex is explicitly on the table.
 

dogstar

Review Contributor
Messages: 310
Reviews: 33
Joined
#17
For an “alternative lifestyle” website they are pretty uptight when it come p4p activities. I’ve seen a few girls put out posts that were basically escort ads but the get shutdown and banned rather quickly. Especially if they are really blatant. Some of the more subtle ones will slip through, but pretty rare.

I was pretty active on it a few years back. Bagged a few civy chicks on there. The trick was just be normal. There’s so many nutbags on there, if you’re polite and articulate you will stand out. It’s a lot of effort though.
 

HKBoytoy

Review Contributor
Messages: 113
Reviews: 7
Joined
#18
For an “alternative lifestyle” website they are pretty uptight when it come p4p activities. I’ve seen a few girls put out posts that were basically escort ads but the get shutdown and banned rather quickly. Especially if they are really blatant. Some of the more subtle ones will slip through, but pretty rare.

I was pretty active on it a few years back. Bagged a few civy chicks on there. The trick was just be normal. There’s so many nutbags on there, if you’re polite and articulate you will stand out. It’s a lot of effort though.
I know one provider on there but she’s everywhere. You can find a lot of chicks willing to have “arrangements” and basically have you be a pay pig and such.

It’s not worth the effort unless you have a lot of time on your hands (hence alternative lifestyle), enjoy masturbating and are willing to shell out cash as a “pay pig” and I say that as a current user.
 

kinkykev2

Registered Member
Messages: 122
Reviews: 3
Joined
#19
For an “alternative lifestyle” website they are pretty uptight when it come p4p activities. I’ve seen a few girls put out posts that were basically escort ads but the get shutdown and banned rather quickly. Especially if they are really blatant. Some of the more subtle ones will slip through, but pretty rare.

I was pretty active on it a few years back. Bagged a few civy chicks on there. The trick was just be normal. There’s so many nutbags on there, if you’re polite and articulate you will stand out. It’s a lot of effort though.
Just a reminder that bdsm is legal but p4p is not in most jurisdictions in the USA.
 
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