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Feeling Guilty

Honda

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Guys I come on here as well as other review sites. Read all about your mongering adventures and get the urge to get back in the game. But as of late 2017 when I committed to being a better husband. I can find it in me to pull the trigger. For a little over ten years I did my wife dirty and felt little to no guilt. But now I feel it. For instance, i’ll Text these woman to make appointments then guilt takes over and I cancel. Maybe my mongering days are over!!!!
 

Honda

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@Honda "Maybe my mongering days are over!!!!" If you have guilt, then take out the word maybe and consider this "Your mongering days are over!" If you relapse, we will welcome you back.
I did have a relapse in mid 2018 with a girl in flushing. A quick hump&dump for $100.
 

East Lake II

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Mongers leave the hobby for many reasons. Yours is as good as any. Reading reviews make it difficult to leave for good. If you feel guilty, you really should stop. Ask yourself why you felt no guilt for so long and why you suddenly started feeling guilt.
 

Koujiao

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It is okay. Some of us have relapses somewhere as we move forward every day. I prefer to relapse with amp ladies over alcohol/heroin/cocaine.

Most of the relapses here are the opposite, they are spending a few weeks or months out of the MP, pretending to be faithful again, only to return to 2-3/week AMP sessions.
 

PickleRick

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I don't feel guilty. It's just not as fun anymore since I've been doing this over 20 years. I try to hit places I've never been to get that initial excitement. But usually falls short. I'm going to be taking a long break.
 

mitchxy1

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Feeling guilt means you have a conscience. It's important and good to have a conscience. Evil doers don't have a conscience. It's just a matter of how well you follow it. Even some of us that say they don't feel guilty, deep down they probably do, unless it's easily justified.
 

Massage Vet

Massagevet - The AMP Advisor - Spa Hunters Alumnus
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For a little over ten years I did my wife dirty and felt little to no guilt. But now I feel it
Dude, really? Feeling guilty after 10 years? You are way too far in, my friend.

You want to feel guilty now?

If so, you need to let her go.

You can never ever ever take back that 10 years of mongering behind her back.

So being a good boy for a year now has made you feel better about your marriage? Less guilty feeling?

Maybe you need to think about the possibility that if it wasnt for this hobby you and your wife might have never even made it past the last 10 years!

Trust me, some of these guys on here will tell you what you want to hear and others will sugar-coat the truth.

Go look in the mirror. The answer/resolution to your guilt will be waiting for you.
 

VJLUTZ

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If your wife is keeping you satisfied, then that is the best of all worlds. You have no worries about getting caught and more disposable income.

However, if you are not satisfied, then you've got a decision to make. I can see someone being conflicted if their wife is doing their utmost, but they still want to cheat. However if your wife has just punted on sex, that is a major abdication of her responsibilities. Even if its due to health problems, at the end of the day you are still a man. If she has just let herself go, you may not even be attracted to her anymore. Trying to be a "better husband" under those circumstances is like trying to be a devout (celebrate) monk. It can be done, but its not for almost everybody.
 

East Lake II

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I don't feel guilty. It's just not as fun anymore since I've been doing this over 20 years. I try to hit places I've never been to get that initial excitement. But usually falls short. I'm going to be taking a long break.
Even new places often don’t offer that initial excitement as the routine is pretty much the routine and sometimes you see a provider in the new spa you have see before at a few other spas.
 

didi88

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In my personal moral code it would be wrong to have an affair with another woman and I would feel guilty about that. But mongering is my hobby. Some guys play golf, some fish, I monger. If you work hard and provide for your family, I see nothing wrong with having a hobby that you enjoy.
Bet your wife wouldn’t see it that way..
 

Anonajohn

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In my personal moral code it would be wrong to have an affair with another woman and I would feel guilty about that. But mongering is my hobby. Some guys play golf, some fish, I monger. If you work hard and provide for your family, I see nothing wrong with having a hobby that you enjoy.
AMP girl once asked me if I have a wife or girlfriend. I said Yes. She seemed confused at first, but as it dawned on her, she countered, "Oh nooooo. Girlfriend too much trouble. Come here and we take care of you."
 

charliebrown

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If you are developing a moral code, congratulations. you should be proud and you should continue with no hesitation or regret.

That being said, why the F___ are you checking out these sites and calling and canceling appointments. Knock it off. grow up and stop checking the sites.
 

Porkchop

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In my personal moral code it would be wrong to have an affair with another woman and I would feel guilty about that. But mongering is my hobby. Some guys play golf, some fish, I monger. If you work hard and provide for your family, I see nothing wrong with having a hobby that you enjoy.
What if you play golf and monger?
Double the fun.
Lol
 
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