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Falling in love with a provider

chimi

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In this type of situation, you have to REALLY ask yourself.

Are you IN LOVE with her service? or IN LOVE with her?

Always ask yourself, did she do her job so well that I am "in love"? And how many other people did she make feel that way? You are just another sucker for her because she does not feel the same way about you. Sorry to break it to you.
Probably in love with how you feel when you are with her. Ask to marry you and see where it goes. She how she reacts. Hell, the ask is just a proposal, it's only a question. Isn't love supposed to lead to marriage and commitment? You need to find out.
 

Justlooking

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I always find it amusing when dudes post some shit like this and then you don't ever hear from them again... :unsure::p
Because it's another member that is using a different name. And I think I know exactly who it is the same one that always posts that he is in love with one of these lovely ladies .

If he has to ask what to do his mind will never be strong enough to date one of these ladies . They will rip his heart apart and probably take some of his money too
 

chimi

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Because it's another member that is using a different name. And I think I know exactly who it is the same one that always posts that he is in love with one of these lovely ladies .

If he has to ask what to do his mind will never be strong enough to date one of these ladies . They will rip his heart apart and probably take some of his money too
Probably already has, he's looking to commensurate with someone.
 

bxboy

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Because it's another member that is using a different name. And I think I know exactly who it is the same one that always posts that he is in love with one of these lovely ladies .

If he has to ask what to do his mind will never be strong enough to date one of these ladies . They will rip his heart apart and probably take some of his money too
Oh wow. Interesting. I think I know who you’re talking about.
 

Nightmonger

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The odds are more against it working out and have hurt feelings on both sides. These women usually don’t want to quit and if they do it’s temporary once the fire and passion dies down they return to work that’s just one hurdle amongst many more. Usually you know in your gut if it’s worth trying but asking advice or thoughts on here shows that there is doubt which means something is off and you need to be strong internally to go into a romantic relationship with these women.
 

pclar001

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Have you consider how you would introduce a provider wife to your family and friends? But if you found love and can hide her away from any of your social circle like moving to another part of the country then go for it the sex will be great.

I knew a guy in Brooklyn who used to date a cute korean girl and when he brought her around one of his friends recognized her from a south nj rub & tug place. The word got out like wildfire among our circle of friends and one guy even went to see her at work after hanging out with her in a bar one night. The relationship fizzle out after that.
 

Uniquelyme

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Have you consider how you would introduce a provider wife to your family and friends? But if you found love and can hide her away from any of your social circle like moving to another part of the country then go for it the sex will be great.

I knew a guy in Brooklyn who used to date a cute korean girl and when he brought her around one of his friends recognized her from a south nj rub & tug place. The word got out like wildfire among our circle of friends and one guy even went to see her at work after hanging out with her in a bar one night. The relationship fizzle out after that.
Some dudes are scumbags. He had to see her outta all the r&t girls. He had to go see her specifically smh.
 

bxboy

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The odds are more against it working out and have hurt feelings on both sides. These women usually don’t want to quit and if they do it’s temporary once the fire and passion dies down they return to work that’s just one hurdle amongst many more. Usually you know in your gut if it’s worth trying but asking advice or thoughts on here shows that there is doubt which means something is off and you need to be strong internally to go into a romantic relationship with these women.
Not saying it's impossible but if you're Chinese your stand a much better chance than any other ethnicity.

The only time I've ever seen a "happy ending" is about 4 or 5 years ago. A girl at Kings Spa on Farrington (btw she was the least attractive and overweight) settled down with some old white dude. They got married and had a baby.
 

WanderingHands

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Yea, the dude may get his heart ripped out.
But if he does not try, he may always have a question or regret.
I think, if he is indeed in love, give it a try and reevaluate as time goes on.
He may end up with a really sweet person that cares about him and is fucking awesome in bed.
Nothing ventured...
 

PhillyJimi

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The reality is some providers are doing this as a means to an end. They want to get out of this business and are smart about it. Invest in a small nail salon or to open an beauty salon. Find a decent guy that treats them right and get married.

The other reality is some providers if they like the work and like the cash they make. Have zero issues with blowing thousands on drugs, drinking and gambling. They feel completely free to do what they want when they want. They can travel around the world and make serious very money too. For them the idea of getting married isn't as much fun as you (Mr I'll Save Them) think. Not to say they don't like a reliable guy they can call and that will help them or take care of them from time to time. But playing house wife and being trapped in a 2 bedroom house in the burbs living on a $60,000/year pre-tax salary and just being normal isn't really their thing. Especially if the guy only thinks of them as a sex toy.

I am not saying it can't end well but understand which kind of lady you're dealing with first. I would highly recommend let them be who they are. If she want to drink a bottle of vodka and find some blow at 4 AM, let her do her thing. Act like you're really cool with it. If she is trying to catch you and feels you're don't approve of it, she will stop or hide it from you. That doesn't mean 4 years into marriage she is going to stop her destructive habits. Offer to take her to A/C, or to party, or to go shopping. If she is happy with a knock-off handbag and doesn't drink more than a few glasses of wine and doesn't gamble. You might have a potential keeper. If she is a party gal, have fun with her and they can be a whole lot of fun! Just don't marry her or knock her up.
 

eldiago12

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In this type of situation, you have to REALLY ask yourself.

Are you IN LOVE with her service? or IN LOVE with her?

Always ask yourself, did she do her job so well that I am "in love"? And how many other people did she make feel that way? You are just another sucker for her because she does not feel the same way about you. Sorry to break it to you.
to make the matter worse let's assume she go with him, the "service" is not going to be the same it will be different like a husband and wife or bf/gf stuff
 

Maple Garden

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A never ending recurring topic. I’d like to see some stats on the successfulness of such relationships by:

Ethnicity

Socio Economic

Education

Age of both parties

Providers level of service; Spa (legit, HE, FS); SW, Escort agency

How long in the business.

How long in each segment of the business. For instance,
1 year legit, 1 year HE, 5 years FS.

Seeing some detailed color coded graphs and charts, preferably presented by Don King would be helpful to anyone considering such a decision.
 
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