In my time, the clubs require a lot more game/$$$$. Midwestern college "cities", yes you can do well in the couch dance area without the CR upgrade. I've not even bothered with that route in actual cities for a long time. Way better options available. I wouldn't be surprised though if things are more open for conversation during day shift, but realize they are on day shift for a reason. You can find a gem, but the happy hour prices could play a part. The only places I've heard more good than bad about around Philly is Atlantis and the 19th hole. Never been myself, but you can always try them out if that's your scene.