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Escorts vs Mistresses
- Thread starter Micawber
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I really think there is a lot of self fulfilling profacy at work here. If you convince yourself that women only like guys with stunning good looks, then you start giving off vibes that convey "I know you're not interested in me, so I'm not interested in you".
And if you vastly prioritize beauty over any emotional or erotic connection, then it's unlikely you will attract any in return.
Not saying that's evil or bad, just saying the result should not be shocking when it happens. We all project things with body language, etc, that has more effect on attracting or repelling people than we think.
And if you vastly prioritize beauty over any emotional or erotic connection, then it's unlikely you will attract any in return.
Not saying that's evil or bad, just saying the result should not be shocking when it happens. We all project things with body language, etc, that has more effect on attracting or repelling people than we think.
Ehhh...Don't underestimate the power of good looks either...
I see this every day. Those types of guys get treated VERY differently by females. Upon sight.
Get treated differently by males as well (though not nearly as pronounced).
Ever been on the trade floor of an investment bank?
Then go visit the back office/clearing area. Or the IT department.
The difference will be glaring.
And trust me, I have never been shocked by these types of things.
Have known my place since grade school.
Reality is something of which I have always been keenly aware.
"I know you're not interested in me, so I'm not interested in you"
- From my point of view, that is accepting reality.
The only game changer, IMO, is to become famous or Harvey Weinstein level rich, which of course is out of reach for most of us.
I see this every day. Those types of guys get treated VERY differently by females. Upon sight.
Get treated differently by males as well (though not nearly as pronounced).
Ever been on the trade floor of an investment bank?
Then go visit the back office/clearing area. Or the IT department.
The difference will be glaring.
And trust me, I have never been shocked by these types of things.
Have known my place since grade school.
Reality is something of which I have always been keenly aware.
"I know you're not interested in me, so I'm not interested in you"
- From my point of view, that is accepting reality.
The only game changer, IMO, is to become famous or Harvey Weinstein level rich, which of course is out of reach for most of us.
@AutomaticSlim - Well, at least you have a brain and are able to earn good $$. As you know, money is the great equalizer.
The thing about looks is that they (usually) don't last. That's painfully obvious when you go to a high school reunion (even a 10 year one). Lots of women (and men) who rely on their looks are SOL when those looks fade away. If they don't have half a brain, all they are left with is a sense of entitlement & bitterness. Even worse, some of them don't realize their looks are gone. Few things are more pathetic than a fat/ugly woman straining to make herself look beautiful.
The thing about looks is that they (usually) don't last. That's painfully obvious when you go to a high school reunion (even a 10 year one). Lots of women (and men) who rely on their looks are SOL when those looks fade away. If they don't have half a brain, all they are left with is a sense of entitlement & bitterness. Even worse, some of them don't realize their looks are gone. Few things are more pathetic than a fat/ugly woman straining to make herself look beautiful.
Very true. It works the same way with many jocks who rode their athletic prowess to all sorts of benefits--especially in the classroom. There were a lot of jocks in my school, and some had brains and drive enough to build on it--from HS to athletic scholarship to pro contract to business opportunities and have done very well for themselves. Then there are the ones--often the football stud--who was handed grades by infatuated teachers, took basket weaving in college, didn't get their degree, washed out as a pro, and is a pathetic caricature who blaims everyone else for his failure. See a bunch of them at reunions. Many still have the looks, but the chearleader GFs are long, long gone.
A mistress is too much like a SO. You've got to do non-sexual things with her and probably have to listen to her talk. And you'll see her without makeup too.
With providers you just get what you need and don't have to worry about anyone but yourself.
In the words of Andrew Dice Clay "I'm in, I'm out, I'm asleep." Of course, I have to drive home before I can go to sleep, but you get the jist.
With providers you just get what you need and don't have to worry about anyone but yourself.
In the words of Andrew Dice Clay "I'm in, I'm out, I'm asleep." Of course, I have to drive home before I can go to sleep, but you get the jist.
I jokingly call mine my mistress but she’s more like a long-term casual-but-exclusive girlfriend. She’s a former professional colleague with no time or interest in a real relationship due to trying to crush it professionally and is a general lone wolf that prefers to do things alone, but needs to fuck now and again and prefers a married man that won’t stalk her or fall in love, and I work out a lot.
We treat each other to dinner and drinks and find reasons to travel together, and while I don’t give her money, we do both spend on each other. The biggest investment is the time I spend maintaining a friendship. The sex is great; she claims to be on IUD and so I nut in her. She has a higher net worth than me so if she got pregnant, we’d just go down that road when we got there. She doesn’t want that though, she says.
She’s a rich, smart, hot Japanese woman, but also kinda boring, mildly depressed, and knows nothing about American pop culture, which is annoying at times. She’s hotter than my Korean wife but nowhere near the total package (to me).
We’ve been doing this for about 4-5 years. My wife has met her and thinks she’s a weirdo and thinks I bump into her one or twice a year, haha.
I really just want a PAWG to fuck and eat fried food with.
(I’m mostly on this site for info on handjobs and firm massages from middle-aged Asian ladies.)
We treat each other to dinner and drinks and find reasons to travel together, and while I don’t give her money, we do both spend on each other. The biggest investment is the time I spend maintaining a friendship. The sex is great; she claims to be on IUD and so I nut in her. She has a higher net worth than me so if she got pregnant, we’d just go down that road when we got there. She doesn’t want that though, she says.
She’s a rich, smart, hot Japanese woman, but also kinda boring, mildly depressed, and knows nothing about American pop culture, which is annoying at times. She’s hotter than my Korean wife but nowhere near the total package (to me).
We’ve been doing this for about 4-5 years. My wife has met her and thinks she’s a weirdo and thinks I bump into her one or twice a year, haha.
I really just want a PAWG to fuck and eat fried food with.
(I’m mostly on this site for info on handjobs and firm massages from middle-aged Asian ladies.)
I tend to disagree... I have a FWB arrangement, and we have known each other for going on 20 years, and even though we know what turns the other on, we don't have an emotional attachment other than we enjoy each others company. I guess that puts her on the edge of the definition of 'mistress' but I still prefer the term FWB. We are the two people that Bonnie Raitt talked about in "Let's give them something to talk about." We can just eyeball each other the right way and turn the other on... But we are restrained enough to know where the limits are.
Go with a FWB. Find someone you really like as a friend and don't mind spending time with and approach the subject carefully. Mine happens to be my wife's good friend, so she knows the limits. But we are also good enough friends that we can schedule special days for ourselves when both spouses are occupied. The best part is, she initiated it. Wife was going out of town on business, and suggested I take her friend out for dinner and a movie since she was newly divorced. Things quickly went down the FWB path, and we see each other once or twice a month, and sometimes it's just for lunch and making out, and sometimes we never get out of bed. It's the best of all the worlds. No heavy emotional commitment (even though I would be pretty sad to see it end), no heavy financial commitment, and because we are friends outside the bedroom, noone really questions us being together. I don't want her marriage to be affected (because I like her new husband), and she doesn't want mine to be affected either.
Not really lowdown at all Slimm... It's just an itch that both of us scratch. I still am an occasional hobbyist, because tastes can vary. It would be boring if all you ever got to eat was hamburgers, knowing that there is Chinese and Mexican food out there. Besides, she does things that I don't get at home and she gets things that her hubby sucks at... just sayin!