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Do Deposits Make You Change Your Mind

BDANTAN55

Registered Member
Messages: 13
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#1
I have seen more and more women require deposits before making the appointment. I always refuse and then catch attitude from them as if I was wrong in refusing to do so. When questioned, the explanation is that they have been stood up so many times, that this is now required. Thoughts??
 

BillyBlueEye2

Review Contributor
Messages: 263
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#2
Get stood up? then do better reference checks. I wont pay a deposit, too much chance of being scammed and Venmo type apps leave a trail. You send a deposit and get ghosted you have no recourse other than leaving a negative review. Even escorts with excellent reviews who want deposits could go rouge or get hacked. IMO theres no one worth it and it only encourages more to do it.
 

paco2888

AKA jacklondongreat
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#3
I have seen more and more women require deposits before making the appointment. I always refuse and then catch attitude from them as if I was wrong in refusing to do so. When questioned, the explanation is that they have been stood up so many times, that this is now required. Thoughts??
You're obviously going the non-spa route. Spas never require deposits. And there are a bunch of threads explaining why even considering them is a terrible idea...
 

freebeer2go

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#7
No one asked for deposit before venmo/cashapp, so that proves it's not absolutely necessary. I understand paying deposit vastly reduces the "no show" risk for providers, but it also shifts all the risk to the clients. That's unfair and I won't do it.
 

westonsecret

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Yup, deposits are a scam. These are trash low life men around the world trying to get deposits in small increments over 1000s of ads all over the world. Most of them post ads on escort alligator (and others) advertising bbfs, cream pies, bb anal, etc. You text them, they ask, where are you located, trying to get small talk. Some will ask for a small deposit to pay for their gas after you agree to meet. All scams.
 

Tapamp1

Registered Member
Messages: 108
Reviews: 7
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Never do deposits. Have chatted with several who seem legit, with ads on Twitter, this and other forums. But once they ask for deposit, I end the conversation. In addition to losing $, do not want to leave any bank/ app trail. Only way to pay is cash when meeting in person. Even there, if the girl does not match the add and is not good, I walk out. There are many ATFs from spa/ clubs, I have cultivated over years to take to a hotel. Even there the deal is hotel room to be paid and cash to the girl when we meet at the hotel.
 
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