The obsession with DATY reflects clients projecting male sensibilities onto the providers. Generally speaking, sex is more mental for women than it is for men. Physical stimulation on its own and absent any emotional connection is unlikely to bring them to orgasm, whereas stimulation on its own is often sufficient for men. When you are DATY with a sex worker, and if you are any good at it, then it probably feels nice for them, but I doubt they orgasm or get anywhere close. When I read guys bragging about making these girls squirt I laugh because most likely that girl just peed on him. I get that part of this hobby is to feel confident and better about yourself, and we all arrive at that in different ways. The girls understand that too, which is why the good ones go along with the show. I think it goes too far when guys try to say that the STI risks aren't what they actually are. We all have to live in a state of self delusion to some degree. Delude yourself, but don't delude others, especially when people's health is at risk.
