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Dating Providers?

Netlord34

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Was curious if anyone has ever dated a provider? Yes i have heard the warnings, and from experience, I know they are true. Fortunately, at the time i was just dating around and not expecting anything serious. My experience is that it started off well, even meeting close friends, but after several meetings the “charm/novelty/excitement” quickly faded and we had nothing to talk about. A normal relationship could not be established. I would talk about my day and the provider understandably would be mute on happenings during their day. Also, i went from pay to play, to almost being friend zoned. Like sex for them was a job and i was just getting conversation about struggles and life back home. For reference, i dated 4 providers ranging 20-39. (Chinese, Korean, Filipina and Japanese). Also, one girl said that I could no longer go to these places (despite her job), but would give it to me for free when on personal time. Was a wonderful bucket list experience, but now i am curious about hearing other experiences and perspectives?
 

이 회장님

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I’ve dated several of them. It was casual dating with no emotions attached.

Some of them developed feelings and became too attached which I did not like. And if I went to another amp, they knew within 48 hours. lol

One thing to remember—these girls all talk to each other and rumors of you seeing so and so will spread faster than your internet speed. lol
 

The REAL Bxbrown

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I’ve dated several of them. It was casual dating with no emotions attached.

Some of them developed feelings and became too attached which I did not like. And if I went to another amp, they knew within 48 hours. lol

One thing to remember—these girls all talk to each other and rumors of you seeing so and so will spread faster than your internet speed. lol
The one from @NYAW told everyone you were her boyfriend even though you never said you were. :LOL::ROFLMAO:

The one from @AsianLassies showed up at your place at 2am, lol.:LOL::ROFLMAO:

And the girls at @ggr-ph all knew about you and didn't trust you, lol. :cautious::LOL::ROFLMAO:
 

AutomaticSlim

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I did but only when they stopped working to be with me.
- First one was an escort at one of the best brothels in Manhattan. She kept complaining that she would get bullied there and made me feel sorry for her. She was Dominican American.
- Second was a Korean MMS who I "dated" for almost 3 years. She stopped working the floor after she became an MMS.
- Third was a Korean that only came to the US once and I saw twice a week for 3 months. Then went to Korea to see her a bunch of times.
- Fourth and most recent was an Escort that never liked the business and wanted to quit. She was my SB during the entire Covid period. She never considered herself my "girlfriend", but the first three did.

They all caused me aggravation (to differing degrees) and they all played on my sympathy.
I banged other girls the whole time I was seeing all of them (except when visiting Korea, unfortunately).
 

Handsome Matt

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Was curious if anyone has ever dated a provider? Yes i have heard the warnings, and from experience, I know they are true. Fortunately, at the time i was just dating around and not expecting anything serious. My experience is that it started off well, even meeting close friends, but after several meetings the “charm/novelty/excitement” quickly faded and we had nothing to talk about. A normal relationship could not be established. I would talk about my day and the provider understandably would be mute on happenings during their day. Also, i went from pay to play, to almost being friend zoned. Like sex for them was a job and i was just getting conversation about struggles and life back home. For reference, i dated 4 providers ranging 20-39. (Chinese, Korean, Filipina and Japanese). Also, one girl said that I could no longer go to these places (despite her job), but would give it to me for free when on personal time. Was a wonderful bucket list experience, but now i am curious about hearing other experiences and perspectives?
There is a reason that they call these ladies "One hour girlfriends " The ones that are really good at their job will make you believe for the one hour that you spend, that you are special to them, and that there is no one that fucks them better than you. That is the fantasy we pay for. The reality is that you are paying for this fantasy, and the next guy up will get the same treatment you just got because he paid for this fantasy just like you did. If you decide to spend more than one hour with an AMP lady such as dating or activities outside the spa, you will quickly find out why it is best to limit your time to your one hour visit. Their true nature will come out and you will not like what you see. They can hide how fucked up they are for your one hour visit, but spend that extra time at your own risk.
 

xavierang

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I tried but at the end it didn’t work. Only two times.
I once was so hooked to a Easter European that I asked her to go to a date with me and she actually agreed but with the promised that I would stop seeing her at the RMP. She then decided to retire and we had 2 dates only and I realized that outside the RMP all was so different that we didn’t push it forward.
The other was a Russian with whom I was drooling about her and she also told me the same. “If we date you cannot come here again” but seeing her naked was stronger than wanting me to date her. I miss her. she was amazing. She quit a few years ago as she hated it.
 

rigandine

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I tried but at the end it didn’t work. Only two times.
I once was so hooked to a Easter European that I asked her to go to a date with me and she actually agreed but with the promised that I would stop seeing her at the RMP. She then decided to retire and we had 2 dates only and I realized that outside the RMP all was so different that we didn’t push it forward.
The other was a Russian with whom I was drooling about her and she also told me the same. “If we date you cannot come here again” but seeing her naked was stronger than wanting me to date her. I miss her. she was amazing. She quit a few years ago as she hated it.
they all hate it
 

BIGBOB62

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I've done it seriously a couple times, and more times than i can count in terms of hook ups.

Like any relationship you should make sure your objectives are clear. In my early days doing this casually, it wasnt always clear whether this was an outcall service or a date and misunderstandings arose. There were lots of times girls were doing this as a freebie, in thanks for patronage, or just because they wanted some time out of the shop, and its best to make sure both people have it clear beforehand whats going on.

Like Slim I wouldnt seriously date any girl who was still in the business. She needed to retire (and they did). But unlike Slim I also retired although both of the Kgirls i seriously dated allowed basic service massages when away from home.

As to the nothing to talk about comment - never had a problem. casual dates used to tell lots of very humorous stories about the shop. why would it be off topic? You cant really believe she is only seeing you still, right? There's also a ton of cross comparing countries and such.

Never had a problem with being friend zoned, but i also never approached these casual things like sex was guaranteed and automatic. It almost always happened anyway, but I think a girl likes to know that it is her choice on a social date. Mostly these dates improved the sessions afterwards in the shops for me.
 

Netlord34

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I’ve dated several of them. It was casual dating with no emotions attached.

Some of them developed feelings and became too attached which I did not like. And if I went to another amp, they knew within 48 hours. lol

One thing to remember—these girls all talk to each other and rumors of you seeing so and so will spread faster than your internet speed. lol
This actually happened to me i had to stop going to 2 agencies
 

Netlord34

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I did but only when they stopped working to be with me.
- First one was an escort at one of the best brothels in Manhattan. She kept complaining that she would get bullied there and made me feel sorry for her. She was Dominican American.
- Second was a Korean MMS who I "dated" for almost 3 years. She stopped working the floor after she became an MMS.
- Third was a Korean that only came to the US once and I saw twice a week for 3 months. Then went to Korea to see her a bunch of times.
- Fourth and most recent was an Escort that never liked the business and wanted to quit. She was my SB during the entire Covid period. She never considered herself my "girlfriend", but the first three did.

They all caused me aggravation (to differing degrees) and they all played on my sympathy.
I banged other girls the whole time I was seeing all of them (except when visiting Korea, unfortunately).
Thanks for the reply! Very insightful and fascinating perspective!
 

Netlord34

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I've done it seriously a couple times, and more times than i can count in terms of hook ups.

Like any relationship you should make sure your objectives are clear. In my early days doing this casually, it wasnt always clear whether this was an outcall service or a date and misunderstandings arose. There were lots of times girls were doing this as a freebie, in thanks for patronage, or just because they wanted some time out of the shop, and its best to make sure both people have it clear beforehand whats going on.

Like Slim I wouldnt seriously date any girl who was still in the business. She needed to retire (and they did). But unlike Slim I also retired although both of the Kgirls i seriously dated allowed basic service massages when away from home.

As to the nothing to talk about comment - never had a problem. casual dates used to tell lots of very humorous stories about the shop. why would it be off topic? You cant really believe she is only seeing you still, right? There's also a ton of cross comparing countries and such.

Never had a problem with being friend zoned, but i also never approached these casual things like sex was guaranteed and automatic. It almost always happened anyway, but I think a girl likes to know that it is her choice on a social date. Mostly these dates improved the sessions afterwards in the shops for me.
Thanks you your thoughtful reply! Fascinating and very insightful
 

Netlord34

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I've done it seriously a couple times, and more times than i can count in terms of hook ups.

Like any relationship you should make sure your objectives are clear. In my early days doing this casually, it wasnt always clear whether this was an outcall service or a date and misunderstandings arose. There were lots of times girls were doing this as a freebie, in thanks for patronage, or just because they wanted some time out of the shop, and its best to make sure both people have it clear beforehand whats going on.

Like Slim I wouldnt seriously date any girl who was still in the business. She needed to retire (and they did). But unlike Slim I also retired although both of the Kgirls i seriously dated allowed basic service massages when away from home.

As to the nothing to talk about comment - never had a problem. casual dates used to tell lots of very humorous stories about the shop. why would it be off topic? You cant really believe she is only seeing you still, right? There's also a ton of cross comparing countries and such.

Never had a problem with being friend zoned, but i also never approached these casual things like sex was guaranteed and automatic. It almost always happened anyway, but I think a girl likes to know that it is her choice on a social date. Mostly these dates improved the sessions afterwards in the shops for me.
Thanks for the reply, fascinating insight and wisdom.
 

Brooklynbob

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There are some negatives:
1. Can’t go to AMPs. These girls all know each so they will tell her the same day if you went somewhere.
A lot easier to fuck hoes while dating a normal girl.
2. No real interests/hobbies, can get very clingy.
 
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