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Dating Providers?

Raypapi

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#41
Never dated an AMP, never wanted to get involved. Most of them have issues, family back home or whatever. But I did meet one recently, we hit it off and probably going on a date within the next couple of days. Don't know how to approach it.
Dinner, activity and bring her to a hotel? I definitely don't want her to know where I live in case situation gets bad. Should I suggest paying her? Or just assume that since she's going out with me, it's a freebie sex situation? Do you guys start off as transactional or as dating a regular person?

Looking for advice.
If you’re providing a good time, (dinner, drinks) that should be enough. Feel the vibe out. Bring up getting a hotel after dinner, and see what she says. If she asks for money then take her ass home. If she asks for money after the deed is done don’t ever see her again. But don’t ever assume you have to pay her. Some of these woman are just looking for some normal real life experiences. Have fun enjoy each other’s company and don’t ask her if you need to pay her!
 

BDR Studios

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#42
So you’re single and paying for pussy? Dam that’s wild
Hey hey hey now....some of us single guys pay simply for convenience and because we don't have time to deal with the bullshit women inevitably bring with them.

Fcoster24 pays because he needs a reason to flog himself for atonement.
 

Fcoster24

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Hey hey hey now....some of us single guys pay simply for convenience and because we don't have time to deal with the bullshit women inevitably bring with them.

Fcoster24 pays because he needs a reason to flog himself for atonement.
Couldn’t say it better myself. You know me so well. Let’s get some coffee and talk about it.
 

NJCream

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#51
Never dated an AMP, never wanted to get involved. Most of them have issues, family back home or whatever. But I did meet one recently, we hit it off and probably going on a date within the next couple of days. Don't know how to approach it.
Dinner, activity and bring her to a hotel? I definitely don't want her to know where I live in case situation gets bad. Should I suggest paying her? Or just assume that since she's going out with me, it's a freebie sex situation? Do you guys start off as transactional or as dating a regular person?

Looking for advice.
I took her to dinner and luckily had an apartment with her cousin so I brought her back and was invited back up. Went a couple rounds and it was just a regular thing from there. That or just buy a pack of beer and bring it over. Honestly most of them just don't enjoy the sexual services they provide dudes, but they want an enjoyable experience in their personal lives. I only had to cut things off because she wanted something serious and I just wanted to bang
 

themongerer

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#52
Dude just ghost her.

I had something similar who was a LMT that provided happy ending with limited menu but kickass massage. Long story short, I was ready to make her my side piece but she got too comfortable with our conversation and started spilling too much drama about her family.

I didn't think I could deal with hearing her problems all the time although the sex was awesome. I got cold feet with the plan and just ghosted her. There were a bunch of times that I was tempted to reach out to her but the bigger head was surprisingly stronger than the smaller head.
 

starks43

Same starks43, same wit, just on a new forum
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#56
You cant date a hooker fellas.

There is too much emotional damage for them to be salvageable for good men. Im guessing most of us here are good men, who make more than 2 pennies and are geeky enough that we arent swimming in free pussy.
IF a hooker is 25 and can make 800 per month on onlyfans and 6000 per month blowing dudes, why would she give all that up to sit home and split your 6000k per month with her??
If a hooker is 40 and is ready to quit the game, do the math, she has had 5000 men cum in her, you are not not special, you are just whats left over.
 

starks43

Same starks43, same wit, just on a new forum
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#57
I was actually "friends" with a girl I met as an escort.
I saw her professionally 4-5 times. She laughed at my reviews. My late ex passed and I was staying in a hotel and she just so happened to be in the area, she came over with her friend and they stayed in my room to keep me company for an entire weekend. She placed a booty call to me a few times (so no paying) and we were now at the point where we were texting and talking on the phone occasionally. She got a boyfriend, and I met a woman online who lived in Hackensack, she was living in Elmwood Park but working at the Houlihans as a waitress. I told the girl I met, to meet me at the houlis so I could see my "friend" and go on my date at the same time. She and the person I went on a date with hit it off. My date kept going back to houlihans to be friends with "my friend"
Eventually the girl I went on the date with married me and guess who she wanted to come to our wedding? "OUR FRIEND" Michelle Moore.
So fellas, I had a hooker in my wedding. :ROFLMAO:
I knew this girl from ages 23-40 , blonde hair, blue eyes, big boobs and she never was able to keep a man or a relationship. But she was a rather colorful... friend
 

NJCream

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#58
You cant date a hooker fellas.

There is too much emotional damage for them to be salvageable for good men. Im guessing most of us here are good men, who make more than 2 pennies and are geeky enough that we arent swimming in free pussy.
IF a hooker is 25 and can make 800 per month on onlyfans and 6000 per month blowing dudes, why would she give all that up to sit home and split your 6000k per month with her??
If a hooker is 40 and is ready to quit the game, do the math, she has had 5000 men cum in her, you are not not special, you are just whats left over.
Honestly I don't have a problem with women, I actually get along with them very well. Mostly just hobby because I have a SO so it's easier to pay someone I will never see again, rather than have an affair with obligations. The other reason is the rush/the gamble. It's why I typically won't see the same provider twice. Also sometimes I don't really care about the romance aspect and I can just pay to get right to the biz. I'm also in the career stage of my life and I'm not going to risk my job over an unprofessional fling (its a rush but with too many repercussions)
 

starks43

Same starks43, same wit, just on a new forum
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#59
Honestly I don't have a problem with women, I actually get along with them very well. Mostly just hobby because I have a SO so it's easier to pay someone I will never see again, rather than have an affair with obligations. The other reason is the rush/the gamble. It's why I typically won't see the same provider twice. Also sometimes I don't really care about the romance aspect and I can just pay to get right to the biz. I'm also in the career stage of my life and I'm not going to risk my job over an unprofessional fling (its a rush but with too many repercussions)
we have the same outlook sir.
 

vortex14

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Was curious if anyone has ever dated a provider? Yes i have heard the warnings, and from experience, I know they are true. Fortunately, at the time i was just dating around and not expecting anything serious. My experience is that it started off well, even meeting close friends, but after several meetings the “charm/novelty/excitement” quickly faded and we had nothing to talk about. A normal relationship could not be established. I would talk about my day and the provider understandably would be mute on happenings during their day. Also, i went from pay to play, to almost being friend zoned. Like sex for them was a job and i was just getting conversation about struggles and life back home. For reference, i dated 4 providers ranging 20-39. (Chinese, Korean, Filipina and Japanese). Also, one girl said that I could no longer go to these places (despite her job), but would give it to me for free when on personal time. Was a wonderful bucket list experience, but now i am curious about hearing other experiences and perspectives?
It has been discussed many times on this forum about dating a provider. I have been in this hobby for a long time and have dated several. First things first if you are jealous person I would not even consider it... The Experience will be a complete mind Fu.. Ask yourself this question ? can you except the fact that your girl being banged by countless guys day after day? No matter how much she says she likes you and is going to quit.. They can never get away from the money. If you can get past that there are other issues to worry about... Is she asking you for money after each date? Are you just a cash cow to her? Lets assume those answers are no.. Can you live with the possibility of worrying about getting a STD no matter how couscous she shays she is?
Ok lets get past that one, Like I said I have dated quiet a few over the years, gone out to dinner, drinks, night on the town. In fact I am dating one right now but it will always be in the back of your mind all the things I listed above.. But with all that said I would do it again in a hart beat just be careful you don't fall for her , because that is a whole other conversation. Good luck and enjoy the ride.
 
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