AMP Reviews
  • You asked and we delivered! AMPReviews now provides the option to upgrade to VIP access via paid subscription as an alternative to writing your own reviews. VIP Access allows you to read all the hidden content within member-submitted reviews AND gives access to private VIP-only forums in each city. You can upgrade your account INSTANTLY by visiting the Account Upgrades page in your own user profile and using a valid credit card to purchase a subscription. You can get to this page by clicking the link in any review, by clicking the red "See the Details Now" banner on the home page, and by clicking the Purchase Private Details link in the navbar at the top of every page

Dating a provider?

BondsU

Registered Member
Messages: 60
Reviews: 1
Joined
I totally get that, I normally see IND girls. And as I mentioned there are chill girls and then there are the girls which has been are expecting Hermès and Louis Vuitton. Those are the girls that are cheaper to keep it strictly professional, unless you decide to find yourself a woman who wishes to be “kept” and you have the resources to do so
Good point
 

Vslick23

Registered Member
Messages: 68
Joined
I’ll meet the amp providers during their day off. We’ll spend a day together, eat, hang out, drink and spend the night at their place and have sex. I’ll leave them $500 with a thank you note and leave. They refuse the money but I insist they keep it.

They fully understand that I’m not looking for a relationship.

They give me great sex and I compensate them for their time.

There is one apartment complex in Flushing and I’ve seen four different providers in that same building. The guy at the front desk gives me a funny look when he sees me. lol.
How do you get to meet them outside of the hobby? Do you ask when you see them at an amp? Or do you wait for them to ask you? I know there are boundaries and don’t want to make someone uncomfortable.
 

이 회장님

Review Contributor
Messages: 4,965
Reviews: 107
Joined
How do you get to meet them outside of the hobby? Do you ask when you see them at an amp? Or do you wait for them to ask you? I know there are boundaries and don’t want to make someone uncomfortable.
I’ll ask some of them and some of them would ask me after our session.

Recently many Korean amp providers have asked me to play golf with them but I have refused. lol.
 

backhurt88

Registered Member
Messages: 126
Reviews: 8
Joined
I am not Korean and met up with one. Gave me her number after a session. KakaoTalk. Wanted to play tennis. No charge but later she asked to see her at the store. I didn’t. They open up a little about their lives and tell your their real names and if you still refer to them by their work name they get upset lol just treat them as normal civilian girls even though they aren’t. They are fun, but I’d keep a distant as you don’t want to get involved. But if you get to know them better the session can get a lot better.

With WeChat, simply ask. Some do, some don’t. Don’t overchat them as they are busy with work and would just see you as some lonely customer with no other options. Just find out their general hobbies and interest and if they like you enough they’ll see you outside of work for a bite to eat or engage in some activity. End of the day these girls work a lot and wanna be seen as normal so guess they’d appreciate it if seen as such. Some have a means to an end, either finding a sucker for their cause, citizenship, others just want a friend, and some want a steady customer relationship and willing to continue spending and work some arrangement as one of their many boyfriends.
 

Vslick23

Registered Member
Messages: 68
Joined
I am not Korean and met up with one. Gave me her number after a session. KakaoTalk. Wanted to play tennis. No charge but later she asked to see her at the store. I didn’t. They open up a little about their lives and tell your their real names and if you still refer to them by their work name they get upset lol just treat them as normal civilian girls even though they aren’t. They are fun, but I’d keep a distant as you don’t want to get involved. But if you get to know them better the session can get a lot better.

With WeChat, simply ask. Some do, some don’t. Don’t overchat them as they are busy with work and would just see you as some lonely customer with no other options. Just find out their general hobbies and interest and if they like you enough they’ll see you outside of work for a bite to eat or engage in some activity. End of the day these girls work a lot and wanna be seen as normal so guess they’d appreciate it if seen as such. Some have a means to an end, either finding a sucker for their cause, citizenship, others just want a friend, and some want a steady customer relationship and willing to continue spending and work some arrangement as one of their many boyfriends.
Excellent analysis and agree with you that it’s prob best to stay away as nothing good will come of it. I think citizenship is a big ulterior motive for a lot of them and I’ve heard of gullible customers falling for this. If you don’t mind me asking, which establishment did you meet this girl at? Do you guys still talk?
 

이 회장님

Review Contributor
Messages: 4,965
Reviews: 107
Joined
Nice. Maybe it’s because you’re Korean and can connect with them easier
I can connect with the Korean providers better because there’s no language or cultural barrier.

But there are some Korean providers (especially from a small city such as Suwon) who are not comfortable seeing me because it is a very small world.

For example, one room salon girl I hang out with in Flushing knows a very popular Korean provider in Manhattan. I don’t want to connect those dots so I just played dumb and changed the subject. lol.
 

Vslick23

Registered Member
Messages: 68
Joined
I can connect with the Korean providers better because there’s no language or cultural barrier.

But there are some Korean providers (especially from a small city such as Suwon) who are not comfortable seeing me because it is a very small world.

For example, one room salon girl I hang out with in Flushing knows a very popular Korean provider in Manhattan. I don’t want to connect those dots so I just played dumb and changed the subject. lol.
Makes sense, most of them are more fluent in Korean.
Haha and there are only a handful of very popular Korean providers in Manhattan ;-). Yeah I’ve heard a lot of K gals will do extra due diligence if you’re Korean and to see if they could possibly know you.
 

6Stringer

Registered Member
Messages: 14
Joined
Any experience dating or seeing them outside their work. Just curious if this is a good idea? Food for thought.
Just recently joined, but from experience, don't waste your time unless you can have a little fun. These girls make a lot of money and you'll never get them away from the trade, so don't fall in love unless your can buy Mercedes and Gucci and Rolex....lol..........If you can get some sex and fun outside of the spa, enjoy, but don't think about anything more.....I made the mistake and it's not worth it.
 

Vslick23

Registered Member
Messages: 68
Joined
Just recently joined, but from experience, don't waste your time unless you can have a little fun. These girls make a lot of money and you'll never get them away from the trade, so don't fall in love unless your can buy Mercedes and Gucci and Rolex....lol..........If you can get some sex and fun outside of the spa, enjoy, but don't think about anything more.....I made the mistake and it's not worth it.
Care to elaborate on your story? I do find it interesting that people have met pros, I’ve never thought to even ask, but have been curious if people do.
 

Vslick23

Registered Member
Messages: 68
Joined
The Shinsegae in Centum City, Busan has an "easy chair" section for all the weary husbands tired of following their wives around the store.
They can sit in those nice comfortable chairs reading the paper while their wives roam around trying to max out the credit cards.
I've been in that store twice.
One time too many.
I should have sat in those chairs reading about the Lotte Giants with those other guys.
But fortunately I eventually learned my lesson.
Your cousin-in-law will hopefully learn as well.
How was hunting in Korea?
 

6Stringer

Registered Member
Messages: 14
Joined
Care to elaborate on your story? I do find it interesting that people have met pros, I’ve never thought to even ask, but have been curious if people do.
Sure, well, foolishly fell in love with one of these girls, began seeing her outside of the work. She began living with me, but eventually moved away for another spa gig where she could make more money. I do pretty well for myself, but it came down to money, and unless you make a shitload, there is no way to compare to what some of these girls can make in a day, week or a month. Love is fun, but money is much more important to these girls. By this time, my family had met her (not knowing she was a spa girl) and turned into kind of a nightmare for me. I ended up feeling like the biggest fool on Earth, but I'm sure my story isn't unique here....lol.......just don't make the mistake of thinking anything else......it's money, money and money)))
 

Cuckrr

Review Contributor
Messages: 63
Joined
Sure, well, foolishly fell in love with one of these girls, began seeing her outside of the work. She began living with me, but eventually moved away for another spa gig where she could make more money. I do pretty well for myself, but it came down to money, and unless you make a shitload, there is no way to compare to what some of these girls can make in a day, week or a month. Love is fun, but money is much more important to these girls. By this time, my family had met her (not knowing she was a spa girl) and turned into kind of a nightmare for me. I ended up feeling like the biggest fool on Earth, but I'm sure my story isn't unique here....lol.......just don't make the mistake of thinking anything else......it's money, money and money)))
You are 100% on target Stinger. I came to this website from outside the mongering life. I met a girl through a friend that introduced herself to me as a skincare massage therapist. I didn’t know what that was. We dated for many months, I didn’t know where she worked exactly, but she did sleep overnight in the store which I thought was odd, and I learned the store was open very late at night. One day I picked her up and stumbled upon reviews based on the address. There was reviews about her, using the name I know she uses in America. Her description that people wrote about were accurate. The graphic details of customers visits, what happens and if a condom is used or not was heartbreaking to read. I confronted her about what I read and she was honest and said its all true. Prior, we spoke about marriage eventually. I really liked her, and after a lot of thinking, I asked her to leave the business and I will forgive her past. I earn a good living, and can provide for her well, however I can’t match the $25,000 she earns a month. In the end, her love for money and risking an unhealthy lifestyle was her love, not me. For anyone else still thinking about hookups with a provider, the sex is just about nonexistent. The only time she was not working was when she had her menstrual cycle. Additionally, sex is work and not something enjoyable outside the job. If your looking for a friend for dinner and a movie, then a provider maybe a good buddy to meet up with, but don’t expect more.
 

6Stringer

Registered Member
Messages: 14
Joined
You are 100% on target Stinger. I came to this website from outside the mongering life. I met a girl through a friend that introduced herself to me as a skincare massage therapist. I didn’t know what that was. We dated for many months, I didn’t know where she worked exactly, but she did sleep overnight in the store which I thought was odd, and I learned the store was open very late at night. One day I picked her up and stumbled upon reviews based on the address. There was reviews about her, using the name I know she uses in America. Her description that people wrote about were accurate. The graphic details of customers visits, what happens and if a condom is used or not was heartbreaking to read. I confronted her about what I read and she was honest and said its all true. Prior, we spoke about marriage eventually. I really liked her, and after a lot of thinking, I asked her to leave the business and I will forgive her past. I earn a good living, and can provide for her well, however I can’t match the $25,000 she earns a month. In the end, her love for money and risking an unhealthy lifestyle was her love, not me. For anyone else still thinking about hookups with a provider, the sex is just about nonexistent. The only time she was not working was when she had her menstrual cycle. Additionally, sex is work and not something enjoyable outside the job. If your looking for a friend for dinner and a movie, then a provider maybe a good buddy to meet up with, but don’t expect more.
Yup, you are 100% right. Actually, the sex between us became rather bad to be honest (after being incredibly f ing good)). Sounds all too familiar. Come to visit you when she was on her period? Then leave? yeah.......been there too. I'm glad you didn't marry her, some of them are looking for a green card and glad you didn't fall for it. At least she was honest with you, there is something in that. My girl was also obsessed with money and material possessions and selling her body really wasn't a big deal to her from what I could tell.....just as long as the wallet was stuffed with 100s. We (and I am sure a few others) can be a lesson for others who fantasize about being with a provider in real life........avoid, avoid, avoid!!!!
 

backhurt88

Registered Member
Messages: 126
Reviews: 8
Joined
Excellent analysis and agree with you that it’s prob best to stay away as nothing good will come of it. I think citizenship is a big ulterior motive for a lot of them and I’ve heard of gullible customers falling for this. If you don’t mind me asking, which establishment did you meet this girl at? Do you guys still talk?
Prefer not to say. She left the establishment, an actual well known store front and apparently is “back in Korea”, according to whatever they call the old lady who runs the joint...and herself as I texted her once and she lied saying that and a few months pass, and I decided for shits and giggles to call and she was in “Korea” when she answered but when I said I’ll see you now, she said really and gave me address...she gave me the location, basically an apartment setup and I went to see her. Selective. I paid an hour, I was there an hour and a half. She proceeded to show me pictures of her 5 year old son and tell me she knows this job is no good but good money and she has “goals”. And how she was overwhelmed and driven crazy with all the customers so decided to leave and not to tell anyone. I said who am I going to tell? She starts asking me questions and pulls out her translator as she can’t converse fluently. I’m in no way shape or form imagining anything with her after the fact but just thought it was interesting so I’d let her talk and see what she had to say. To hear her sales pitch. See what she offers lol...Blah, blah, blah, I ask her about her hobbies and what she likes to do. Most of these girls like tennis, golf, volleyball, running, badminton, ping pong. If you agree to do one of them with them, you’re in. They are generally bored and life is all work, no play. And will talk how back home they did this but here haven’t. So an innocent hangout as a hitting partner for an hour or so gives them whatever “escape”.

She doesn’t speak English well. I have her number, but don’t text. No use for conversation over KakaoTalk because it will lead nowhere. And really nothing to say. She really only wants a steady customer and pretend to be your friend...build cliente. Sometimes I think about seeing her, but after the urge I let the brief what would be mental lapse pass, and forget the idea...at this point I pretty much lost interest. Thought about deleting today as I talk to girls not in the business and don’t want to be tempted to seek her as her service is top notch. At the end of the day I know these girls are cunning liars looking for an economic opportunity, like any other girls but you’re probably in competition with ten plus so guys at any given time in a week. and what do I get outta it? I’m not trying to save a girl. Maybe she would make a good wife but I’m not signing up for someone with a kid and one who can’t connect with on any level whatsoever...for the record I saw her twice at the spa, and once after at the new spot, and we hung out after. She messaged me to come see her later that day, and I told her not today busy, another time...that was pretty much the end of that. I enjoyed the time with her outside, but I feel funny after to see her. Don’t exactly expect any benefits outside her work and play without play either. In all honesty, I just wanted to see if I could hang out with one and if their personality matches and this one did. And one thing is how jealous these girls are. She started questioning me random names at the massage parlor and if I seen this one and that one and I simply answered no, as I haven’t. And when I truthfully said only you, she let out a big smile, as I bet she pulls on customers to make them feel special.

For WeChat, I’d recommend posting moments so girls see your everyday life, and think of you as normal and not just a creepy customer who has a list of WeChat contacts as they do. One spa girl sent me up on WeChat. Same spa girl offers me 100k for marriage and a Porsche and then wants me to give her 3k a month to leave the spa life lol...at least she’s straight forward but it’s a “no” on the offer. I think the selling point is they know what you have to offer, living arrangements, and that’s what they want...to move in with you. They will also try to convince you to buy them a store and go in on the business. ...they will cook or have food ready to feed you, they’ll probably skip the condom for the anchor baby and tie you down. Be careful. Only those willing to hang out with you outside the spa are looking for something in return. No one wants to waste a few hours of their time on their day off, free day, unless they are gonna get paid eventually by you, because they are missing out on more customers that day or simply resting and enjoying their own time. Remember time is money. To get that free for them is almost unheard of I believe unless you kick it back by visiting them. More than half the time I doubt they just want a friend who was a former customer. It’s more like special repeat customer, that’s really it.
 

mccovey

Review Contributor
Messages: 1,003
Reviews: 31
Joined
You are 100% on target Stinger. I came to this website from outside the mongering life. I met a girl through a friend that introduced herself to me as a skincare massage therapist. I didn’t know what that was. We dated for many months, I didn’t know where she worked exactly, but she did sleep overnight in the store which I thought was odd, and I learned the store was open very late at night. One day I picked her up and stumbled upon reviews based on the address. There was reviews about her, using the name I know she uses in America. Her description that people wrote about were accurate. The graphic details of customers visits, what happens and if a condom is used or not was heartbreaking to read. I confronted her about what I read and she was honest and said its all true. Prior, we spoke about marriage eventually. I really liked her, and after a lot of thinking, I asked her to leave the business and I will forgive her past. I earn a good living, and can provide for her well, however I can’t match the $25,000 she earns a month. In the end, her love for money and risking an unhealthy lifestyle was her love, not me. For anyone else still thinking about hookups with a provider, the sex is just about nonexistent. The only time she was not working was when she had her menstrual cycle. Additionally, sex is work and not something enjoyable outside the job. If your looking for a friend for dinner and a movie, then a provider maybe a good buddy to meet up with, but don’t expect more.
Wow , great read and a lesson learned for sure . Sorry you had to go through that
 

Vslick23

Registered Member
Messages: 68
Joined
Prefer not to say. She left the establishment, an actual well known store front and apparently is “back in Korea”, according to whatever they call the old lady who runs the joint...and herself as I texted her once and she lied saying that and a few months pass, and I decided for shits and giggles to call and she was in “Korea” when she answered but when I said I’ll see you now, she said really and gave me address...she gave me the location, basically an apartment setup and I went to see her. Selective. I paid an hour, I was there an hour and a half. She proceeded to show me pictures of her 5 year old son and tell me she knows this job is no good but good money and she has “goals”. And how she was overwhelmed and driven crazy with all the customers so decided to leave and not to tell anyone. I said who am I going to tell? She starts asking me questions and pulls out her translator as she can’t converse fluently. I’m in no way shape or form imagining anything with her after the fact but just thought it was interesting so I’d let her talk and see what she had to say. To hear her sales pitch. See what she offers lol...Blah, blah, blah, I ask her about her hobbies and what she likes to do. Most of these girls like tennis, golf, volleyball, running, badminton, ping pong. If you agree to do one of them with them, you’re in. They are generally bored and life is all work, no play. And will talk how back home they did this but here haven’t. So an innocent hangout as a hitting partner for an hour or so gives them whatever “escape”.

She doesn’t speak English well. I have her number, but don’t text. No use for conversation over KakaoTalk because it will lead nowhere. And really nothing to say. She really only wants a steady customer and pretend to be your friend...build cliente. Sometimes I think about seeing her, but after the urge I let the brief what would be mental lapse pass, and forget the idea...at this point I pretty much lost interest. Thought about deleting today as I talk to girls not in the business and don’t want to be tempted to seek her as her service is top notch. At the end of the day I know these girls are cunning liars looking for an economic opportunity, like any other girls but you’re probably in competition with ten plus so guys at any given time in a week. and what do I get outta it? I’m not trying to save a girl. Maybe she would make a good wife but I’m not signing up for someone with a kid and one who can’t connect with on any level whatsoever...for the record I saw her twice at the spa, and once after at the new spot, and we hung out after. She messaged me to come see her later that day, and I told her not today busy, another time...that was pretty much the end of that. I enjoyed the time with her outside, but I feel funny after to see her. Don’t exactly expect any benefits outside her work and play without play either. In all honesty, I just wanted to see if I could hang out with one and if their personality matches and this one did. And one thing is how jealous these girls are. She started questioning me random names at the massage parlor and if I seen this one and that one and I simply answered no, as I haven’t. And when I truthfully said only you, she let out a big smile, as I bet she pulls on customers to make them feel special.

For WeChat, I’d recommend posting moments so girls see your everyday life, and think of you as normal and not just a creepy customer who has a list of WeChat contacts as they do. One spa girl sent me up on WeChat. Same spa girl offers me 100k for marriage and a Porsche and then wants me to give her 3k a month to leave the spa life lol...at least she’s straight forward but it’s a “no” on the offer. I think the selling point is they know what you have to offer, living arrangements, and that’s what they want...to move in with you. They will also try to convince you to buy them a store and go in on the business. ...they will cook or have food ready to feed you, they’ll probably skip the condom for the anchor baby and tie you down. Be careful. Only those willing to hang out with you outside the spa are looking for something in return. No one wants to waste a few hours of their time on their day off, free day, unless they are gonna get paid eventually by you, because they are missing out on more customers that day or simply resting and enjoying their own time. Remember time is money. To get that free for them is almost unheard of I believe unless you kick it back by visiting them. More than half the time I doubt they just want a friend who was a former customer. It’s more like special repeat customer, that’s really it.
Wow what a response!! Yes, I clearly think you illustrate the downsides of being involved with a pro. Scary about the anchor baby and how many immigrants would do this. I guess the takeaway is that it’s ok to maybe hang out with one, but don’t get feelings involved.
 

TKA9

Registered Member
Messages: 284
Reviews: 1
Joined
Just recently joined, but from experience, don't waste your time unless you can have a little fun. These girls make a lot of money and you'll never get them away from the trade, so don't fall in love unless your can buy Mercedes and Gucci and Rolex....lol..........If you can get some sex and fun outside of the spa, enjoy, but don't think about anything more.....I made the mistake and it's not worth it.
You’re spot on about the money as a younger provider getting 200 plus for session is easily making 200-250 k tax free a year and isn’t saying goodbye to working for love.The older providers ( 45 plus) that are hustling could be willing to settle down if a monger has his own house and income north of a 100k as they understand their days of making serious money are winding down.
 
Top