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Dating a provider?
- Thread starter rya550
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Gather round fellow mongers, Toad has a story to tell.
Met a lady in this hobby last week and we hit it up 2x.
During the 2nd visit she asks me straight up- do you want to get married? She said she'd pay for everything, she has money and she wants a greencard.
Very interesting. This lady is 34 y/o and acts way younger and super girly and shes petite aka my type.
So I tease her and say "cant marry you if we dont date".
So we winded up hanging out after that session, got some azn bakery and talked. I basically walked her home since she lives in my neighborhood.
We winded up hanging up that Sunday for like 3-4hrs. Walking thru queens, eventually she wants shake shack and it's overall really cool.
Most of where I showed her was new to her since she recently moved to the area.
At the end of the night we went to her place to eat, and it was all good. She got annoyed with me bc I tried to take a pic with her. I actually think doing this killed the vibe for her bc she hasnt responded to my texts since lmfaoo.
ANYWAYS I was never gonna marry this girl but I thought it'd be funny to post this here bc of the topic on hand.
At the end of the day they are just ladies looking to get by. We didnt even have sex on the sunday date, I didnt make any real moves on her that day. She did come close to me many times and let me pretty much put my hands anywhere. It was kinda fun to pretend to have a GF for a bit. All I really paid that time was for the burger.
Now, If we hang again that'd be cool, but this experience does make me want to get back to dating normal women again.
Oh yeah, and she loved window shopping omfg that was soo annoying. I forgot what that's like. Going somewhere with a girl and her stopping u every 10s because of some shiny dress in a store window. Big ass waste of time. This comes with the territory of women though.
Cheers mongers!
Met a lady in this hobby last week and we hit it up 2x.
During the 2nd visit she asks me straight up- do you want to get married? She said she'd pay for everything, she has money and she wants a greencard.
Very interesting. This lady is 34 y/o and acts way younger and super girly and shes petite aka my type.
So I tease her and say "cant marry you if we dont date".
So we winded up hanging out after that session, got some azn bakery and talked. I basically walked her home since she lives in my neighborhood.
We winded up hanging up that Sunday for like 3-4hrs. Walking thru queens, eventually she wants shake shack and it's overall really cool.
Most of where I showed her was new to her since she recently moved to the area.
At the end of the night we went to her place to eat, and it was all good. She got annoyed with me bc I tried to take a pic with her. I actually think doing this killed the vibe for her bc she hasnt responded to my texts since lmfaoo.
ANYWAYS I was never gonna marry this girl but I thought it'd be funny to post this here bc of the topic on hand.
At the end of the day they are just ladies looking to get by. We didnt even have sex on the sunday date, I didnt make any real moves on her that day. She did come close to me many times and let me pretty much put my hands anywhere. It was kinda fun to pretend to have a GF for a bit. All I really paid that time was for the burger.
Now, If we hang again that'd be cool, but this experience does make me want to get back to dating normal women again.
Oh yeah, and she loved window shopping omfg that was soo annoying. I forgot what that's like. Going somewhere with a girl and her stopping u every 10s because of some shiny dress in a store window. Big ass waste of time. This comes with the territory of women though.
Cheers mongers!
That was legendary lol .
Shake shack ! I’d love to get away with that
I’m chatting with this girl on SA
I’ve sent her about 200 dollars in the past 3 months and she wants to meet me but I can’t due to COVID conerns so she sends me pics . I will meet her next month if I can get out of house without getting caught but she’s hot single mom and she wants to go out as il sure she’s going to expect more than a hundred but I’m investing in her lol
Am I being a fool ? Maybe but with girls you need to spend ! Doesn’t matter where they’re from even the rich ones ! They more demanding bu the way since they’re raised that way
Shake shack ! I’d love to get away with that
I’m chatting with this girl on SA
I’ve sent her about 200 dollars in the past 3 months and she wants to meet me but I can’t due to COVID conerns so she sends me pics . I will meet her next month if I can get out of house without getting caught but she’s hot single mom and she wants to go out as il sure she’s going to expect more than a hundred but I’m investing in her lol
Am I being a fool ? Maybe but with girls you need to spend ! Doesn’t matter where they’re from even the rich ones ! They more demanding bu the way since they’re raised that way
This is very accurate. The only things I’d add is that if they’re working in Manhattan at a place like PH or etc. then you’d expect at least 30k fairly easy. Not including anything outside.
Most girls ship their money to gambling, younger bfs, family or shopping. Mohegan sun has a lot of girls that work. AC isn’t as big anymore. Candy from AS used to go to AC. But she would hit up Mohegan too. I’m okay mentioning her cause she will not be returning ever lol.
They usually expect a great deal in monogamy. It’s not okay once you date them to hobby or have side women. Jealousy is very strong in these girls. It’s a small world so if you sleep with any girl that’s been around in the last year it’s going to be pretty easy to find out.
If you want them out of the biz, they will want you to make up for that income for sure. Given the choice they do not want to leave the industry and would rather have you only to themselves and they work.
That being said. It is possible to have a fwb relationship with these girls where money isn’t exchanged. But keep in mind what you look like and how much charisma you really have. The Hobby tends to make a lot of fellas forget where they’re at sometimes. I’m not saying I’m the pick of the litter either. But keep your expectations realistic is all I’m saying. You’re better off stumbling into something like that situation. If you’re try to angle for it then it’s more than likely you’re going to fail and you’ll get frustrated. So why do it to yourself.
Most girls ship their money to gambling, younger bfs, family or shopping. Mohegan sun has a lot of girls that work. AC isn’t as big anymore. Candy from AS used to go to AC. But she would hit up Mohegan too. I’m okay mentioning her cause she will not be returning ever lol.
They usually expect a great deal in monogamy. It’s not okay once you date them to hobby or have side women. Jealousy is very strong in these girls. It’s a small world so if you sleep with any girl that’s been around in the last year it’s going to be pretty easy to find out.
If you want them out of the biz, they will want you to make up for that income for sure. Given the choice they do not want to leave the industry and would rather have you only to themselves and they work.
That being said. It is possible to have a fwb relationship with these girls where money isn’t exchanged. But keep in mind what you look like and how much charisma you really have. The Hobby tends to make a lot of fellas forget where they’re at sometimes. I’m not saying I’m the pick of the litter either. But keep your expectations realistic is all I’m saying. You’re better off stumbling into something like that situation. If you’re try to angle for it then it’s more than likely you’re going to fail and you’ll get frustrated. So why do it to yourself.
@SingleMalt You should be teaching a course on this!
Thanks and I know it’s a risk and trust me if she didn’t want to see me , there is no way I’d gift her anything so I will share my story . I’m not shy But sometimes you gotta plant the seed before it bares fruit . If i get there business when we meet than I’m out . I met her through SA so it’s different game and I am very skeptical person . So I’m pleading with the jury lol thsy il not as dumb as my actions lol
I appreciate the honest feedback ! I do ! I would say the same thing ,
The non-providers are super-serious about finding husbands. They really see life through a different cultural lens
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/opinion/2014-04/15/content_17435205.htm
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/opinion/2014-04/15/content_17435205.htm
and you win best comment of the day.
So I tell my cousin, “He’s busting his ass making a living for you and the family and you ask him to buy you expensive La Mer cosmetics?!?” “Are you f**king stupid?”
My cousin tells me that my attitude is exactly why I am single and will die a lonely man. lol. She also told me that I became “too Americanized” because all Korean men treat their women like this. Okaaaaaaay. smh.
The Shinsegae in Centum City, Busan has an "easy chair" section for all the weary husbands tired of following their wives around the store.
They can sit in those nice comfortable chairs reading the paper while their wives roam around trying to max out the credit cards.
I've been in that store twice.
One time too many.
I should have sat in those chairs reading about the Lotte Giants with those other guys.
But fortunately I eventually learned my lesson.
Your cousin-in-law will hopefully learn as well.
They can sit in those nice comfortable chairs reading the paper while their wives roam around trying to max out the credit cards.
I've been in that store twice.
One time too many.
I should have sat in those chairs reading about the Lotte Giants with those other guys.
But fortunately I eventually learned my lesson.
Your cousin-in-law will hopefully learn as well.