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Dating a non-asian provider

Kharaadamscott

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I read thru a few threads with great information. But they were mostly geared towards asian providers (obviously I understand why). I wanted to get opinions and stories on non asian providers.
 

njlefty

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I read thru a few threads with great information. But they were mostly geared towards asian providers (obviously I understand why). I wanted to get opinions and stories on non asian providers.
I had a retired provider as a sugar baby for a year.

Never would date a provider, though. Prefer to keep things in this world as the business it is.
 

AutomaticSlim

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Over the last 23 years did 2 non-asians and 2 asians.
All 4 had "left the business" and were relying on me. One of the asians had moved from being a floor girl to a MMS.
All 4 of these "relationships/arrangements" went from bad to worse. Two of them (one American, one Asian) to really, really worse.
My advice is to keep it professional with these girls. Nothing but bad things came of it in my experience.
 

njlefty

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Over the last 23 years did 2 non-asians and 2 asians.
All 4 had "left the business" and were relying on me. One of the asians had moved from being a floor girl to a MMS.
All 4 of these "relationships/arrangements" went from bad to worse. Two of them (one American, one Asian) to really, really worse.
My advice is to keep it professional with these girls. Nothing but bad things came of it in my experience.
I find the whole idea of "dating" a provider to be strange.

This is the business we've chosen.

That's why we're here. Dating is for the match.com types.

Which is a jail sentence.:D
 

AutomaticSlim

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I find the whole idea of "dating" a provider to be strange.

This is the business we've chosen.

That's why we're here. Dating is for the match.com types.

Which is a jail sentence.:D
I agree it is very strange.
But loneliness can make a guy do strange things.
Match.com -- yeah I tried that. Pinged about 150 girls I found attractive (18 - 29, just like my profile stated), got one response.
Got well over 200 unsolicited messages from middle aged women. Quit the site when a 52 y/o messaged me.
 

njlefty

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I agree it is very strange.
But loneliness can make a guy do strange things.
Match.com -- yeah I tried that. Pinged about 150 girls I found attractive (18 - 29, just like my profile stated), got one response.
Got well over 200 unsolicited messages from middle aged women. Quit the site when a 52 y/o messaged me.
This development I live in now is mostly retired. There's some decent looking women here, probably in their 50s, some of them.

No interest. Eventually I'll be bringing in some of Wilmington's best providers in their 20s

Now that's the way to go.
 

AutomaticSlim

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This development I live in now is mostly retired. There's some decent looking women here, probably in their 50s, some of them.

No interest. Eventually I'll be bringing in some of Wilmington's best providers in their 20s

Now that's the way to go.
Please write some reviews!
BTW, the SA scene may be very good there.
I was looking at Central Florida and the prospects are much better than here.
I can get a much easier job there with a very short commute and nice 2 BR with a pool.
Throw in a pretty, petite 19 y/o SB from the community college for $250 - $300 per meetup and that's paradise.
 

VJLUTZ

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I find the whole idea of "dating" a provider to be strange.
Not so strange really. "Dating" a provider is convincing her to spend time with you outside the spa.

The motivation here is not a traditional relationship. It's a much longer, intense and better version of what you get inside the spa. It takes work though, but is usually worth it. In many instances, the provider asked for nothing. Just like you want them to give you the GFE, they also want the BFE. In a few cases, they are husband hunting too, though I always make it clear that is not what I am interested in.
 

L8yPleaser

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I find the whole idea of "dating" a provider to be strange.

This is the business we've chosen.

That's why we're here. Dating is for the match.com types.

Which is a jail sentence.:D

The shortest sentence in the English language is "I am."
The longest sentaence in the English langusage is "I do."
The most expensive sentence in the English language it "I was."
 

Jamesfilipino28

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Please write some reviews!
BTW, the SA scene may be very good there.
I was looking at Central Florida and the prospects are much better than here.
I can get a much easier job there with a very short commute and nice 2 BR with a pool.
Throw in a pretty, petite 19 y/o SB from the community college for $250 - $300 per meetup and that's paradise.
I’m going to join you. Orlando here I come!
 

njlefty

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Most providers want separation from this world in their personal lives. The only mindset about dating comes from the monger demographic. Providers don't want it. The very few providers I knew that have done it soon realized it was a train wreck.
 

VJLUTZ

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The shortest sentence in the English language is "I am."
The longest sentaence in the English langusage is "I do."
The most expensive sentence in the English language it "I was."
I always thought the most expensive sentence was "I do".
The most loaded one is "I promise...."
The most dangerous one is "I love you".
 

L8yPleaser

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I always thought the most expensive sentence was "I do".
The most loaded one is "I promise...."
The most dangerous one is "I love you".
"I do" is definitely the longest, regardless of the actually length of time it lasts.
"I was" is the most expensive because although you are still payin out, you are no longer reaping the benefits of your expenditure.
I would agree that "I promise" is probably the most loaded, considering it's often the response to the request, "you'll pull out, right?" and we all know how well that goes.
As far as "I love you," I think it's only truly dangerous when, a) it's not true, and, b) it's only one way. :)
 

VJLUTZ

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"I was" is the most expensive because although you are still payin out, you are no longer reaping the benefits of your expenditure.
Except that the "I do" may eventually trigger the "I was". So once you say it, you are setting yourself up for whatever burden follows from it. Also not sure about the longest. I know of some "I do" pledges that didn't even last a month.

Now that I think of it, "I won't cum inside" is pretty dangerous too.
 
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