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Cheating
- Thread starter AMPIV
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I don't want to come down hard on you, but I've been there. I "rationalized" this etc. "Men will be men" I told myself. While you are not having an emotional affair with someone, you are still putting your partner at higher risk for diseases perhaps, and legal and financial peril if you are married and get busted, lose your job etc. (Who knows how it could go down.) I am in-between relationships now, but when I hopefully get back into one I will stop this behavior. The poster who said "what about your girlfriend screwing 10 masseuses" hit the nail on the head, but lost its power by being too extreme in his example. Think of it very simply, your girlfriend/wife says "once every couple of months I go to a gigolo and have him fuck me." If you are ok with this, then maybe you should just talk to her about having an open relationship of some kind. If not, when she finds out about your behavior it's over dude, trust me. You're not gonna talk your way out of that one. Even the majority of de-gens on this thread agree.
I think the broadest definition of cheating is doing something that you don’t tell your wife about because you think she’ll get upset with you. So if you just started getting massage action and keep it a secret it’s cheating. If you had the foresight to tell her while dating that you liked getting a massage every few weeks and planned to continue if she was OK with it then it’s not cheating.
I am sure most guys' SOs (wives, girlfriends, etc) fuck other guys on a regular basis and their husbands or boyfriends are probably unaware. I have fucked mostly married women, mostly at my work places, and yes, I know my SO is also fucking other guys wherever and whenever she finds an opportunity...
Two things can be true at once: it feels great (emotionally nourishing, whatever) AND it’s cheating.
Men are programmed to spread their seed around, women are programmed to be selective in choosing whom to fuck; everyone knows exceptions, but generally it proves true.
Some married men resist the urge to screw whores, some men draw the line at happy endings.
In any case, like gambling, taking drugs, etc, sex releases serotonin, endorphins, so it can easily become an addiction and a vice.
I’m not judging, I have this vice myself. However, by staying within my limits of expense and time and what I’m willing to do and not do, I’m okay knowing that I have this vice. It’s a stable vice, which in fact has lessened a lot as I’ve gotten older.
But I’m not going to lie to myself that it’s all good, or justify it because my wife doesn’t want to have sex like when we were younger. I know she’d be upset to discover my mongering. It’s also possible she has her suspicions but has reached a separate peace with that as long as I’m not having an affair with a civvie.
Yeah, I’m a cheater. I’ll live with that.
Men are programmed to spread their seed around, women are programmed to be selective in choosing whom to fuck; everyone knows exceptions, but generally it proves true.
Some married men resist the urge to screw whores, some men draw the line at happy endings.
In any case, like gambling, taking drugs, etc, sex releases serotonin, endorphins, so it can easily become an addiction and a vice.
I’m not judging, I have this vice myself. However, by staying within my limits of expense and time and what I’m willing to do and not do, I’m okay knowing that I have this vice. It’s a stable vice, which in fact has lessened a lot as I’ve gotten older.
But I’m not going to lie to myself that it’s all good, or justify it because my wife doesn’t want to have sex like when we were younger. I know she’d be upset to discover my mongering. It’s also possible she has her suspicions but has reached a separate peace with that as long as I’m not having an affair with a civvie.
Yeah, I’m a cheater. I’ll live with that.
Are you fantasizing about fucking your SO when spanking the monkey?
Jimmy Carter said he sinned in his heart by lusting after other women... then again, he was a pretty devout Baptist.
But I have to admit that I’ve always felt guilty about jerking off, and happy that with aging the urge to do so fades.
Jimmy Carter said he sinned in his heart by lusting after other women... then again, he was a pretty devout Baptist.
But I have to admit that I’ve always felt guilty about jerking off, and happy that with aging the urge to do so fades.