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Being asked about your relationship status?

doofu77

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Do providers often asked about your relationship status? Like do you have a girlfriend or are you married? Don't know why they bother to ask but I always tell them I'm single.
 

PurpleRayne33

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Presumably out of curiosity. You could become someone they hang out with during off-hours, or you strike them as decent, which makes them wonder why you are there.
 

haaretz

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As guy who keeps his wedding ring on it's obvious. One provider that I've been seeing for awhile was even more blunt by asking what would my wife do if she found out! Divorce me, I told her. An intake interview I guess.
 

PurpleRayne33

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Are you saying most mongers are not decent lol? I rarely run into other mongers irl so I have no idea what your average monger is like.
When I say decent, you might look younger or be in better shape than some. They service all kinds, from the well-heeled to the dregs, but it's no stretch to assume the clientele trends older.
 

Uniquelyme

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More the girls who are born here would ask if I have a gf or married . Some Asian amp girls asked too. Usually though after several visits the amp girls would ask. The girls born here would ask right away.

I think it's to start a conversation. Not solely that but it plays a part imo.
 

Srhsrh

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I think its just better to wear the ring, and be honest when asked. it saves having to make up creative stories later. Most girls i've talked to dont care, except to be a little more careful texting guys that they know are married, and to make sure he goes out the spa door at night with his underwear on forwards, and no lipstick on his pecker.
 

East Lake II

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When I was younger and more handsome the girls would often ask me why I come to a place like this. I was always honest with them and would reply "For the mini bottle of water and mints, of course."
It’s interesting how the questions change over time, the more you see one, the more probing the questions become. Sometimes I think it’s just curiosity or just making conversation, other times I think it’s to gauge if there is an emotional connection that will ensure repeated visits, and other times I think they are genuinely interested.

First question are you married.
Do you have children, how old - they want to gauge your current financial obligations.
How long have you been married. Then they always say, your wife is very beautiful right? This question is meant to see how you feel about your wife.
Then comes how long have you been married.
Eventually, sometimes sooner rather than later, why do you come see me? With this question, they also want to see if an emotional attachment is developing which is more likely to ensure repeated visits.
And, with that question, the statement, you only see me OK.
And, over time, I’m off tomorrow, you come see me OK. We do this and that? Sorry, honey it’s your day off, but not mine. I have to work. Lol
 

damnedness

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I was told many years ago that when a girl asks if you're married, always say yes. Some girls, not all, are looking for a way out of the biz and hoping to catch a single well off monger. Now I'm married anyways and always have my ring on.
 

haaretz

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You guys must be young and cute to get those questions!
I bear a close resemblance to Walter White of Breaking Bad, so there you go. Not much interest in going out with a guy their father's age.

I was invited by a 50ish lifeless tart to marry her, worst session yet.
 

doofu77

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I was told many years ago that when a girl asks if you're married, always say yes. Some girls, not all, are looking for a way out of the biz and hoping to catch a single well off monger. Now I'm married anyways and always have my ring on.
In that case isn't it better to say your single so you can build rapport.
 

Shibsaeggi

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Provider: “Are you married?”
Me: “No.”
Provider: “Do you have a girlfriend?”
Me: “No.”
Provider: “Do you have a baby?”
Me: “Umm,.........I.....don’t......think......so.” LOL

No one wished me a Happy Father’s Day today so I’m assuming I don’t have a child. lol
 

Tyler1

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Provider: “Are you married?”
Me: “No.”
Provider: “Do you have a girlfriend?”
Me: “No.”
Provider: “Do you have a baby?”
Me: “Umm,.........I.....don’t......think......so.” LOL

No one wished me a Happy Father’s Day today so I’m assuming I don’t have a child. lol
Yet... we are trying to get you a queen to rule flushing with.
 

Yello Tail

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I always tell them the truth. Occasionally I have asked why do women always ask that question. Various responses. Some said if you are married they are more careful not to leave marks. Others have said married men are more clean and take less chances.
 

p0p0p

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Provider: “Are you married?”
Me: “No.”
Provider: “Do you have a girlfriend?”
Me: “No.”
Provider: “Do you have a baby?”
Me: “Umm,.........I.....don’t......think......so.” LOL

No one wished me a Happy Father’s Day today so I’m assuming I don’t have a child. lol
Happy maybe father’s day....... lol
 
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