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Anyone else into Cuddling?

Softball1

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I admit it. Guilty. I have been cuddling for a few years now and I love it. Just going to an AMP and getting a perfunctory release from a not so attractive provider got to be a little boring.

I got started with an independent place in Westchester, and expanded to the cuddling sites .. the snuggle buddies, cuddlist and cuddle comfort as the selections grew. Yes, I know they advertise as platonic cuddling only, and most of my experiences have been "platonic", but some have not, and there have been the real gems.

My problem is that I cannot host, and I'm only available weekdays during the daytime, so that limits my set of potential cuddle buddies. But there are more than enough to go around. I find that cuddle comfort and cuddliest are the easiest to use, because they allow you to contact the cuddlers directly without any advance down payments. the snuggle buddies went out of business for a while, but they recently seemed to be up and running again.

80Net, I think if your willing to invest (low cost, most only $.80 and hour) and be patient you can have a good time. I'm not high roller so $.80 - $1.00 and hour works for me.

I know, many of your are thinking "WTF, spend $.80 for blue balls?", but like I said there are some real gems. Right now I have a regular I see about once a month who I met on a cuddle site and we go all in each session for a Benji.
 

Every20

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Sounds like an good entry point into something that could be more fulfilling than, as you suggest the current
spa visit paradigm. In short, the spa visit is really starting to suck. A foot in the door with a willing (important distinction) cuddle buddy is definitely a shift. I there could be a natural progression from the platonic to a FWB arrangement.

A few questions: is cuddling usually done fully clothed (as in street clothes), PJs, or less? Do you just sort
of hug in a bed motionless for a hour? The reality is hard to imagine. In your experience what do you think is
the percentage of girls who really see this as a platonic stopping point?

Not to be a wise-ass but bath-buddies would be a nice niche too. Just a though.
 

Softball1

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Yes, willing is the key component. Have to be very careful and cautious in crossing the platonic line … I always let the lady initiate any sensual contact. A few ladies suggested be cuddle topless on their own ...

Every site and every cuddler has their own cuddle rules regarding clothing and touch. Generally, the cuddlers aren't supposed to cuddle nude or in lingerie …. tank tops, soft t shirts, sweats, yoga pants and gym shorts all seem to be acceptable for cuddlers to wear. I always probe in advance .. on a limited basis, to see what the cuddler will wear and what I can wear. I usually suggest that I prefer to cuddle in a soft t shirt and gym shorts, and that seems to work. If not, it's usually a red flag about possible sensual cuddling. I love the feel of bare legs … and we are not supposed to touch areas of the body that would normally be covered by undies.

For fist time cuddles I generally go with the flow, like I said, it's a low cost investment. cuddlers wil usually switch positions to accommodate the client .. big spoon and little spoon are common positions.

Most cuddling occurs on a bed …. if a cuddler suggests a couch or a public huddle I politely say no thx.
 

Every20

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Thanks for the insight. I signed up for CuddleComfort. I'll see where this takes me. Do you mostly Cuddle in NYC? I'm guessing there might be a high population of ladies (say college age+) doing this as a way to make
some side money. As an experienced "guide" here now, what does your experience show you with regard to
how many cuddlers are willing to go beyond?

TY
 

Softball1

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Thanks for the info @Softball1! I had no idea this existed. What do you usually do with your hands? And what kind of screening takes place?
Well good question- depending on the cuddle position I’ll place my hands on an arm or shoulder, or on the waist or tummy. Sometimes I’ll let the Cuddler place my hands wherever she’s comfortable. Sometimes a full on hug works with my hands on her back or waist. As the cuddle progresses I may stroke the legs if she’s ok with that-

Most will require at least a telephone call and an exchange of pics - some will require a video call via FaceTime or Skype- others will want to meet at a neutral site - like a Starbucks- before they take you back to their place-

If you can host it opens up possibilities
 

Softball1

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Thanks for the insight. I signed up for CuddleComfort. I'll see where this takes me. Do you mostly Cuddle in NYC? I'm guessing there might be a high population of ladies (say college age+) doing this as a way to make
some side money. As an experienced "guide" here now, what does your experience show you with regard to
how many cuddlers are willing to go beyond?

TY
I have cuddled with women from all the sites except cuddle companions - can’t schedule a session without leaving a deposit in advance - I recommend not doing that unless you have no other choice

Can’t give u sensual stats - Yiu know the cardinal rule - YMMV!!!
But I will say that most of the Cuddlers have been platonic- and if nothing progresses after a few cuddles I generally move on
 

Softball1

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I have cuddled with women from all the sites except cuddle companions - can’t schedule a session without leaving a deposit in advance - I recommend not doing that unless you have no other choice

Can’t give u sensual stats - Yiu know the cardinal rule - YMMV!!!
But I will say that most of the Cuddlers have been platonic- and if nothing progresses after a few cuddles I generally move on
Yes I mostly cuddle in NYC and NNJ
 

Softball1

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Try Nikki in Totawa NJ from the snugglebuddies site. and there is a BBW in Edison NJ from the cuddle comfort site. I have been banned from cuddle comfort but I'll try to remember a few from there too.
 

Samwolf

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This is incredible. I have no words. I am reading this string and waiting for softball to respond with a “psyche! You fucking idiots!”.... but he ain’t doin it. I am shocked and intrigued. Confused yet curious. Perplexed. Can’t understand this. Date rape risk has got to be high.
 

Softball1

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This is incredible. I have no words. I am reading this string and waiting for softball to respond with a “psyche! You fucking idiots!”.... but he ain’t doin it. I am shocked and intrigued. Confused yet curious. Perplexed. Can’t understand this. Date rape risk has got to be high.
You absolutely have to be careful - can’t push the envelope unless you are 110% certain that the Cuddler is ok - sometimes you can always ask - a no is still a no - I’ll ask if they will wear something sexy in a subsequent cuddle - if they say no - then no problem I just move on -
 
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