lots of great advice from guys on this forum. The best advice my bud gave me (We are ex Marines) do recon of the place before you meet the provider. I tell you, saved my ass twice from going into hostile environment. I was in parking lot, provider was on the phone telling me she was waiting naked. she was outside waiting, two guys went in the room, I guess they were waiting for me to say hello. lol sometimes you strike gold with some independents as well. I guess, there's no logic to this adventures.