You don’t pay for sex, you pay them to leave. Dating anyone, American or otherwise, you have to play all the games before and after. When I was younger I was a hit it and quit it guy, so after pounding some chick I would try and make an excuse to leave, sometimes it wasn’t so easy. Then if you don’t feel like seconds, they hound you down, like you’re now a couple just because you had sex. Of course there’s some benefits to being married, but once you’re married long enough the sex is less and less. Amps would go out of business if wives put out more often.
And what do you mean modern woman? A woman that won’t wait on you hand and foot, like they appeared to in the 1950’s tv shows. That was only on tv, that wasn’t real life. At the end of the day if you want to get into a relationship you have to have respect for all woman, modern or not. If you want a subservient woman, look for a Korean or Chinese woman that’s looking for a green card. Amps have plenty of those, but you better have deep pockets.
That’s just my 2 cents.