A question for all Mongers

[Driver]

Wow!!! 70? Crazy

Yes 70. She has her fans though but not me.

 

[rooc74]

So I’d put myself up there for the youngest monger on the whole site. Fresh out of college, and looking for new experiences. Have had and continually having great experiences with girls my age on my own but, them AMPs just give such a transactional vibe and I love it. No drama, no BS, it’s all just too perfect for me. I wanted to ask you seasoned mongers, when was your first AMP experience? How was it? When and where was your greatest experience? When and where was your worst experience? I’d wanna pm y’all for some more explicit details so if it’s not a bother, be ready for a pm from me. Just really wanna learn from those who came before me.

Fortunately or unfortunately, it all started for me in Nam many, many moons ago. I had not had sex for quite awhile due to location that was not my choice. It was an attractive Asian. I lasted all of about 7 minutes.

So my advice to you involves keeping a clear perspective on things. Do not let it dominate your life. Make sure you keep it pleasurable. You will find the good, the bad, and the ugly in this thing. I have found independents to be the most reliable, but that is just me. Keep tabs on your spending.

So kick your heels together and go enjoy it.

 

[Tityfortaty]

Thank y’all for the words of wisdom. I guess I only did it because I liked the thrill of it not being allowed. All my adolescent life getting attractive girls were pretty easy for me even up until now. This kind of lost its spark recently and I went for something more taboo like mongering. I guess that’s the young stupidness in me. I got my first career job but in no way am I financially setup to my standards so I’ll definitely take you guys advice and slow it down to twice a year or something. There’s also a part of me that wanted to experience older women. I only know how to “pull” or attract girls my age or a tiny bit older but I’m scared that the dating market is completely different when you hit 25 and above and I wanted to get a head start and see what older women are like in terms of intimacy. Anyways thank each and everyone of y’all’s advice.

Great advice on this thread, just wanted to add something. A lot us have S/Os. For me (close to 40) it helps fill in the low spots in my relationship, or even fulfill some fantasies…From my view, it’s not so black or white, but It depends a lot on your personality.

 

[rooc74]

Again, as a younger man, please just try to keep this thing/hobby in perspective. It is suppose to be about pleasure and enjoyment. And as is the case with many enjoyable things (lets just say having a few scotches), moderation is typically the key.

 

[Max1922]

So I’d put myself up there for the youngest monger on the whole site. Fresh out of college, and looking for new experiences. Have had and continually having great experiences with girls my age on my own but, them AMPs just give such a transactional vibe and I love it. No drama, no BS, it’s all just too perfect for me. I wanted to ask you seasoned mongers, when was your first AMP experience? How was it? When and where was your greatest experience? When and where was your worst experience? I’d wanna pm y’all for some more explicit details so if it’s not a bother, be ready for a pm from me. Just really wanna learn from those who came before me.

You really should find some girls your own age and leave this behind. 40 and 50+ year old Asians are fun when you are 60 but come on...give a massage to a sweet lady your own age. Be nice to them and date, go to shows the whole bit, be romantic and focus on them.
Drop these MPs come back to it in 30 years.

 

[elsinore125cr]

Well in a perfect world AMPS are an added bonus. Ideally, once a month type thing, maybe every 3 weeks.They are not relationships or friendships, they are services you pay for your satisfaction. I had one non-FS AMP girl that really claimed we were special and wanted to see me outside her shop. I thought wow this is different and she would come over and have some pretty good sex Told me I was her BF. So I said OK if I visit your shop I will pay and tip, but if you come to my house it should be no charge. After one no charge visit that was the end. They are money focused, even if they might really fall for you it still is about money. So it probably never can be a real relationship in most cases. Also, it is never too late to find a great relationship ASlim. You definitely can find a great one 15 years your junior if you wanted to

 

[bchang]

I've never been addicted to anything in my entire life. Drugs, alcohol, etc. I've never felt an inkling to say I need it. I could never understand why people need to go to rehab. Then I started this hobby. When I look back, it's just like any deviant behavior that one starts. First it's just a hj, and its only 1/month and that's more than enough. But then what about a cbj 1/month. It just progresses more over time. It's like those crime shows when they say he will hunt again and his frequency will increase. If I drive into a new town that I've never been to, I can instantly tell where spas are located and what level of service they provide. Yesterday, I went to 2 different spas. I had a great time at both. But after I left the second one I thought to myself, why? Each girl was a bit different in what they did, made me feel. Maybe that was it. So like others have said, wait to your in your 40's to start this hobby. Even if you see an amp girl outside the store, don't fall for her. It's always about money at some point. With all the dating and sex apps that you 20 year olds have out there, getting tail should not be a problem.

 

[Gymrat2014]

I've never been addicted to anything in my entire life. Drugs, alcohol, etc. I've never felt an inkling to say I need it. I could never understand why people need to go to rehab. Then I started this hobby. When I look back, it's just like any deviant behavior that one starts. First it's just a hj, and its only 1/month and that's more than enough. But then what about a cbj 1/month. It just progresses more over time. It's like those crime shows when they say he will hunt again and his frequency will increase. If I drive into a new town that I've never been to, I can instantly tell where spas are located and what level of service they provide. Yesterday, I went to 2 different spas. I had a great time at both. But after I left the second one I thought to myself, why? Each girl was a bit different in what they did, made me feel. Maybe that was it. So like others have said, wait to your in your 40's to start this hobby. Even if you see an amp girl outside the store, don't fall for her. It's always about money at some point. With all the dating and sex apps that you 20 year olds have out there, getting tail should not be a problem.

I’ve been in this hobby since early 20s.. have drastically cut back.. but in my 20s and even 30s I’d bang 1 or 2 new civilian girls every weekend.. I’d still feel the need to visit a spa 2-3 times a month

 

[lookinloki]

Unfortunately much does not thrill me these days, the ones my age are divorced/have kids/really hot but equally attitude riddled; or are hot, young, fun, but I find them too immature and not able to have meaningful conversations even though I'm just the out of touch older one. I'd trade with you in a heartbeat to have my youth back and be easily interested and have a patience for women again. I started 10 yrs back, while going on dates and having sex with attractive women. I am unsure but maybe my view has become skewed. Don't be me, like others say, come back later if you want, don't get involved in this now.

 

[AsianSpa69]

There is NO such thing as “relationship” with an AMP but it’s all about MONEY in the end.