I don't know if I'm in the minority with this but when sex at home with the wife gets a little ho-hum and boring, I'll see an escort or visit a FS amp and suddenly my sex drive for my wife fires back up and sex with the misses is great again. Anyone else have this same experience or am I a complete weirdo?
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Sex life at home
- Thread starter Micawber
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Sven and Ole are talking one day. Sven says, "Hey, Ole, I think you need to buy youself some new curtains for the bedroom."
Ole replies, "Sven, what are you talkin' about?"
Sven says, "Well, I was walkin' by your house last niht and I could see you and Lena, you know, goin' at it through the bedroom winduh!?
Ole says, "Sven, I think the joke is on you. I wasn't even home last night ..."
Ole replies, "Sven, what are you talkin' about?"
Sven says, "Well, I was walkin' by your house last niht and I could see you and Lena, you know, goin' at it through the bedroom winduh!?
Ole says, "Sven, I think the joke is on you. I wasn't even home last night ..."
Honestly I can’t believe this is even a question. Can’t tell you how many serious hotties I have bagged and got tired of them after a few months....it’s hard for me to stay interested in anything after a few months. Regardless, this hobby is designed to keep things interesting. I have a wife of 20 and 2 kids....but for me I need an outlet. Love is one thing.....and fresh flower is another.
It's well documented that affairs can be helpful to a marriage. Not making that up. The sexual awakening is probably the key element, not the collateral damage if it's discovered. AMPS and escorts provide the safest and least cumbersome path to the sexual awakening, without the baggage. Some guys endure life missing the thrill and passion of banging away for moral reasons, but keep bottling up the frustration and anger of their unfulfilled life. Others seek, and find, a safe outlet and release their tensions to live another day.
I've been married for over 30 years. The first few years were awesome from a sex perspective. But after the first 5 years of marriage, especially after our 2nd child was born, our sex life started to decline. Luckily, it was a long, slow decline. In 2001, I started going to AMPs. Went many years getting anything more than a HE. Had a few offers of FS though. These intrigued and excited me, but as long as my wife was giving "milk", I didn't do anything about it. I was too scared of the legal and marital implications. Unfortunately, the quality of the milk was getting worse all the time. About 6 years ago, after menopause, my wife told me she really didn't want sex anymore. By that time, I wasn't even that mad because I had become so unsatisfied without our sex life. After that, its been full steam ahead on getting FS externally from AMPs, SBs and the occasional civvie. I really don't feel guilty about it at all. In a way, it surprises me because, in my youth, I really believed adultery was wrong and that men who went to prostitutes were total losers. Aside from the financial cost, I could not be happier. While I don't regret getting married, I'd often wish I'd sown my wild oats more than I did before marriage. In some ways, by shutting off the milk, I feel like my wife let me out of prison.
The male of every species on Earth is hard wired to pursue sex with females. Can't stop nature.
Any man can have a super model on his arm and he will still check out the hot babe across the room.
For that matter, for every gorgeous woman you would run toward to fuck, there's a guy out there who can't get far enough away from her.
Any man can have a super model on his arm and he will still check out the hot babe across the room.
For that matter, for every gorgeous woman you would run toward to fuck, there's a guy out there who can't get far enough away from her.
I was using the term "milk" as a pseudonym for sex. Without getting into explicit detail, I meant that the frequency and quality of the sex was decreasing. It went from daily when we were first married to maybe once a month just before we stopped. There was no enthusiasm on her part which, in turn, decreased my desire as well. Also no desire on her part of experiment or spice things up. She just looked at it as a chore, and mostly one to be avoided. When she told me she was done with sex, my reaction was almost a shrug because I was barely getting anything out of it myself.
But, honestly, even if our sex life was still enjoyable, I was ready to explore and had been for years. Which is probably why I frequented AMPs even if I wasn't getting FS. I needed the variety and excitement. Even without FS, some of the sessions I had were very erotic and memorable. It's like the old adage re: having your favorite food for dinner every night gets old after a while. I just didn't feel justified crossing the Rubicon until my domestic sex life had run out of gas.
Does my wife know? I don't think so. I am very careful about hiding my hobby-related activities because I don't want to hurt her. If she does know, she has certainly not shown any sign of it that I can detect. I think she would be very hurt if she found out, though she might understand deep down. One of the big advantages of AMP girls is their poor English skills and, for the most part, they tell no tales.
But, honestly, even if our sex life was still enjoyable, I was ready to explore and had been for years. Which is probably why I frequented AMPs even if I wasn't getting FS. I needed the variety and excitement. Even without FS, some of the sessions I had were very erotic and memorable. It's like the old adage re: having your favorite food for dinner every night gets old after a while. I just didn't feel justified crossing the Rubicon until my domestic sex life had run out of gas.
Does my wife know? I don't think so. I am very careful about hiding my hobby-related activities because I don't want to hurt her. If she does know, she has certainly not shown any sign of it that I can detect. I think she would be very hurt if she found out, though she might understand deep down. One of the big advantages of AMP girls is their poor English skills and, for the most part, they tell no tales.
I'll also say that, regardless of the sexless state of my marriage, I have ZERO regrets about getting married. Aside from sex, my wife and I have had a great life, she takes very good care of me, is the mother of my children, has kept herself fit, and for many, many years our sex was good to excellent. Regardless of how great the Asian pussy is (and I really only go after Asian women these days), I'm not trading my wife in on a new model. If you're getting married on the basis of just sex, you are almost certainly getting married for the wrong reasons.
A wise man from these boards once opined: "Eventually, all pussy turns rancid". I have to agree with that. One day your sex kitten isn't going to be very sexy anymore, especially after menopause. If you are getting married, you may want to ask yourself if your marriage can withstand being without sex, because one day it may very well come to that. If the answer is no, then its probably best to rent instead of buy. If I found myself single tomorrow, no way I would get married again.
A wise man from these boards once opined: "Eventually, all pussy turns rancid". I have to agree with that. One day your sex kitten isn't going to be very sexy anymore, especially after menopause. If you are getting married, you may want to ask yourself if your marriage can withstand being without sex, because one day it may very well come to that. If the answer is no, then its probably best to rent instead of buy. If I found myself single tomorrow, no way I would get married again.