Only seeing one provider exclusively

First of I only ever see gfe providers I have not even gone covered with a pse provider. Actually in my private life I have always only had cfs for pregnancy prevention and protection. But nowadays there is an over abundance of pse provides and there only seems to be a handful of the gfe only providers. So after a number of lackluster encounters with gfe providers i finally decided to just see one who has consistently been great. I have only seen her for months and months. It's been pretty great actually I don't miss seeing other providers. I can text her and make an appointment without going through the PO she's even made herself available when she's technically off for the day. I feel like this is a better arrangement for me than chasing ever new girl out there and not having that great of a time. Anyone else ever just went with an ATF for an extended time?

I love you and don't stop.

Everyone has their own taste. Many people will come here and talk shit. Fuck them, if you’re happy cool. I personally like to repeat with providers too. I enjoy the chemistry, chit chatting and shit. I had a rotation of top girls and would occasionally mix in a new girl once in a while. I have spent many hours/sessions with some girls. It crazy. lol… but it’s my hard earned money. For me there’s no worse feeling than trying a new girl and being disappointed that you got shitty service with no chemistry. Thinking one of my regular always does what I like and she deserves my money. lol…. It is cool when a K-Girl chooses to chill with you OTC and wants to fuck/suck you for free (you don’t have to buy them expensive shit).
They literally have a bunch of dudes hitting up there KakoaTalk or other messaging app all the one asking to go out and take them on dates and buy them shit. But K-Girls are girls at the end of the day. Some crazier than others. If you can handle their Job and not be jealous I say go for it (proceed with caution and enjoy). If you the super jealous type. RUN AWAY, it will end terrible for you.
Yes. these situation ls can be crazy and typically don’t end well. But fuck it, life is short to have regrets. It crazy to see the this other world that others can never imagine even exist.
When I am old dude I will have some good memories to remember.
Stay Safe.

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As long as you enjoyed it, it’s always a safer bet than seeing someone new

About twelve years ago I picked up a street hooker on international Blvd in Oakland she was in her early 20s, she was black and Hispanic. We developed a rapport right away and for the next two years I saw only her in various motels throughout Oakland and a couple times at her own residence or so she said. The last visit she offered anal which I accepted. Then out of the blue she disconnected her phone and I never heard back from her. Always wonder in the back of my mind where she is...

Lmfao why did you pick up a street provider?

I was new to the game, just starting my life as a monger after realizing that I would not have the luxury of losing my virginity on my own. This was 2009 and had tried computer dating few years before then without success (anyone else remember Yahoo had a personals section?)
Heard Oakland had a track sought it out, I remember when hookers were from 1st to 54th Ave . After a few times of one and done pick ups ( including one young lady who looked a lot like the actress Emily Osment and another who I realize now was a teenage hooker if even) I then crossed paths with the aforementioned lady I spoke of. Was not until 2016 that I switched up to massage parlors.

lmfao yeah I drive down international street when I used to go to school around there. I won’t lie I am interested in what those big booty providers look like naked.

But those girls are meth and cracked out of their head. Nope, c-orgs for me during my college years.

You yourself pay for sex as do many in One way or another. You yourself say you’ve never had a GF. Why you so judgey? Whether your talking Street girl, Stripper, escort, K-Org, C-Org, private/independent, or even dating civilian girls (is seeming more and more is a waste of time and a money pit, if you only want sex) we are all paying to play. Try not to be so brash when making comments.

I used to want to try someone new all the time. Lately, I value my time and $$ so much that I don’t see the upside of finding a new girl/ experience as worthy of it. Hence I’m stuck to one of my ATFs exclusively now and I am getting exactly what I want out of it.

While I’m here, I wanted to pass these additional thoughts on a related topic. The girls make like their job, or not. They came to the US for this job or were promised something else altogether and have ended up here. We’d never know. So, here is how I look at it. At the end of the day, they do this just for $$. Even a $20 tip is going to be awesome to them. Be respectful, tip them if that’s okay. Get them a small gift as a kind gesture. These don’t have to be every single time. Treat them respectfully during the session. The girl would understand you as a gentleman and would do everything she can to make the session repeat worthy for you. That’s how I have found my latest ATF.

When they like you, they may extend some additional offers. If you like those, ride along. If not, you can always go for someone else. The session is like a play, so don’t take it emotionally and get disappointed later.

I also heard that most of them don’t eat a breakfast or lunch; just a single meal for the day which is dinner. They have a smoothie in the morning and that’s it. Non-stop hour long sessions, and here we complain if they kick us out 5 mins early lol. I have now made it a habit to leave 5 mins early (as per my watch).

Nicely put but I'm going to go the opposite way is that most mongers here just see these providers as just pieces of meat. Sure there are some here who have said they take them on dates and have bought them gifts but for most of us we just see them as objects and once we get tired of their kitty, onto the next spot. Am I right, prove me wrong my fellow monger brothers.

I just want to make it very clear so that we don’t continue to spread falsehood. Taking a k-girl on an off the clock date is a very lengthy process. It’s not like taking an independent on a date. Taking a k-girl on the clock date is very easy, just tell the PO.

Yes, it is very common for ATF k-girls to receive gifts from their customers.

Bro k-girls are the worst. They love manipulation and playing games. They want you to develop an emotional attachment to them so they get repeat customers. It's so fuck up.

Then do them all a favor and stop seeing them! You pay for the hour. You’re the one who believes them when they say “I miss you”. Lol… Don’t get it twisted, they guys like you that have never had a girlfriend. It’s your fault. They are literally doing their job.

Valid point. Actually, I can fully agree with your take on this. Let me clarify. It’s essentially what we want out of a session. It’s a very personal preference. That’s all. To me, the visual appeal (FB) and the sensual experience (SA) are all important to keep me hard. Hell, if the room is too warm, I get them to bring it down to normal first lol. Anyway, I’d like FBSA to be 8+ across the board. I’m very picky. For example, Binna’s face and body look like that of a model (body is a bit worn out, but face is still alright). However her service and attitude were bad so I’d never go back. Mia came close but she rushed me towards the end to get me out the door so that she gets 10 mins to reset before the next session. I haven’t gone back. Izzy was great, but had the same routine without anything new and fancy on the next visit which made me stop at 2 visits. My current ATF looked great, had a nice body and gave me exceptional service on my first visit, so I tipped her extra $20 at the end when I was paying for the session. The experience just keeps getting better on the subsequent visits so I don’t wanna see a new girl who can be a hit or miss for my personal preferences.
Secondly, I want the best value for my investment ($280), lol. I still think a lot before subscribing $99 for an annual service so $280 per visit is no joke. Not that I have trouble affording that, I just value every $ I spend. So doing my own due diligence such as good dental hygiene, a bit of grooming of my forest down there, pre-showering, staying in shape, etc. help me get better service, i.e., better value on the $280 investment Once I find the rhythm with a girl, I’d just repeat until I get bored of it and then move on. A provider is never going to be my gf, ever. So, everything I do is to just make sure the service and attitude are top notch.

Yes many years ago, her name was Sylvia. I only sessioned once a week back than and she let me book through her. I remember showing up one night and she was dressed in street clothes. She said it was her day off but she was happy to see me. Now I session 2 to 4 times a week, impossible to see just one girl, I would get bored, unless it was possible to book Riki whenever I wanted than maybe I would do it.

Funny you should mention the girl being in street clothes. I showed up for one session with my ATF and she was fresh out of the shower with wet hair and in her pajamas, not lingerie mind you but two piece thermal pj's and that actually was hotter to me than her being in a bikini or lingerie. It felt like a more like a gfe with familiarity and not having to dress to impress.

Agreed. The idea is to not fall for it, and stick to your own priorities. Just use the development of the situation to your own advantage. No girl is there to look for a boyfriend, so you shouldn’t be going there to look for a girlfriend either. Just keep it business-only, making sure your priorities are met in every session. Ultimately, we are all hobbyists so we should just treat this as a hobby and nothing more.

Seeing the same girl has its benefits. I’ve been seeing a popular girl often and she’s not known to be cutesy or affectionate. After seeing her for awhile, more of her real side comes out and sometimes she can be cute and affectionate. Earlier this week got her last slot of the day, I got a lot of otc and she was pretty cute when I was pulling her around in her wagon cart outside her apartment. She’s fun and I like seeing her.

You must've went to UC Berkeley then.