Ironically, I am not here to judge either party. Or, I guess, any of the 3 parties. Sounds like an unfortunate series of misunderstandings and misperceptions. I believe Robertico's version of events. I believe he meant no malice. At least consciously. (Sub-consciously, hey, we're probably all misogynists in one way or another). I also believe he should have read my Kora review before going. Then none of this would have happened. I specifically addressed something like this. People, before you go see a girl, you should ALWAYS see if I reviewed her. I'm more prescient than even I realized.
Kora is a gamble, with a VERY high up side if you drive her right. Maybe not for those who can't afford to take an occasional L here and there in the hunt for the finest specimens. Best to be an educated gambler.