I see nothing wrong with raising our standards when shelling out hard earned money. The woman who surprised me in Paris set the bar very high. I see no reason not to hold off for the same level of beauty + connection.
Notice I’m not using the word service. Service means nothing to me without natural connection. I’ve had my share of strong connections with gals I wouldn’t look twice at in the street, but no more. Once you cook with gas, there’s no going back.
More importantly, the point above was to call out erroneous reports. Not even subjective, just not factually correct. Sure, beauty is subjective, but I almost shelled out time + money (+ self-respect) to someone based on false advertising. And, I do mean false advertising.