Catching "things" is one thing. The bigger issue it that this hobby is ruthless and a sex addition. And it can cause harm to your significant other physically and emotionally. If you are not prepared to own it when you get caught and suffer the consequences, think long and hard. Many of you probably cannot stop so seek help if you want to stop but cannot. Either professional or through a group for sex addicts. What we do is totally wrong on every count, but we do it anyways. Imagine if your parents knew, your wife, your friends, co-workers, or your son and daughter. Think of all the money over all these years thrown into this hobby, and what better use that could have been used for. Think how devastated your wife would be if she found out, your children? Imagine how you would feel if it happened to you, you found out your wife was sleeping with a different man each week? Imaging how you would feel reading her posts about men plowing her. Just saying.
My point is that DATY is the least of your issues.