All I'm doing is relaying information that was given to me and trying to see it from the point of view of the provider. accusing me of racism is just a shitty way of not confronting the information. theres a girl(
https://adultsearch.com/new-york/brooklyn/female-escorts/2088226) that posts all the time on as. every ad says the same thing "no black men no exception", when i called her this was the first thing she wanted to know and made it clear that if i wasnt honest about it she would block me. her attitude(big turn off) and bad timing stopped me from making an appointment but you get the picture. this is just how some of these girls are.
ive always been a firm believer in the individual, i hate identity politics, group think, etc. but with that said we have to be aware of what these ladies are up against. men are the most dangerous animals on the planet and safety will be high on their list of priorities. this is why i honestly expect to be turned away some times since i dont look safe. but can i blame the ladies for that? one of my mains is 5'3 120, if i decided to go nuts on her who stops me? the cat? is it fair for some groups to be restricted? no. but the data will tell these ladies that an asian guy will be safer then either of us. all we can do is not add to the data. thats why i approach the hobby like i would any business and it has worked out well enough.
if you wanna keep going with this just pm me. but i should have gotten where i stand on this across.