Listen, it's all about the money. About a year ago I was with a provider, who while giving me a massage, told me about a customer who she thought was having a stroke. She said she was on top of him and his eyes started rolling in the back of his head and he started twitching. I asked her well maybe that was his cum face, but she said no because he was a regular customer. She said she told him that next time they could just cuddle and not worry about sex. All the mean time she is telling me this, she is laughing and telling me how the other girls laughed also. But she still wanted him to come back and pay the house fee and a generous tip for cuddling.
Think about it, how many times as a girl gotten mad because you chose another provider, meanwhile she cuts your time short because the doorbell is ringing. They don't care about you, just like you don't care about them. Now there is always an exception to every rule, and maybe there is the one provider/mama that genuinely cares about the well being of a paying customer. But ask yourself this, if you were not paying them in some fashion, will they still be banging you or reaching out to you.