We all read the reviews about a gal who is SO HOT! but seems to be calculating her taxes when she's jerking you off. It happens to all of us.
For the record, I'm old and chubby with decidedly average equipment. I've been seeing a gal now for eight months. Straight FBSM with ending. No FS (I can't tolerate a rubber). No oral (her rule). About once every two months. So maybe four or five visits. She was "standoffish" on my first visit. But her figure and face just knocked me out, so I decided right off the bat that she's worth extra effort on my part: respect, patience and (oddly enough) simply listening. Now we relax and laugh, and we start every session with her snuggled up in front of me (standing) and I warm her up with my hands; ending with me giving her a very vocal (Shhhhh!!!) and shaking orgasm with my hands. Then it's my turn. Lots of oil. Lots of play. Cum on tits which I lick off.
Moral of the story: Trust your libido, not your "I could have done better elsewhere" judgement. If you have the time and the patience, you just might be richly rewarded.
For the record, I'm old and chubby with decidedly average equipment. I've been seeing a gal now for eight months. Straight FBSM with ending. No FS (I can't tolerate a rubber). No oral (her rule). About once every two months. So maybe four or five visits. She was "standoffish" on my first visit. But her figure and face just knocked me out, so I decided right off the bat that she's worth extra effort on my part: respect, patience and (oddly enough) simply listening. Now we relax and laugh, and we start every session with her snuggled up in front of me (standing) and I warm her up with my hands; ending with me giving her a very vocal (Shhhhh!!!) and shaking orgasm with my hands. Then it's my turn. Lots of oil. Lots of play. Cum on tits which I lick off.
Moral of the story: Trust your libido, not your "I could have done better elsewhere" judgement. If you have the time and the patience, you just might be richly rewarded.