I was married and in my mid 20s when I first started the hobby and writing on here. I used condoms 60-70% of the time at home and 100% of the time in the hobby. NEVER saw it or was offered even one time.
now I am in my mid 40s and in north jersey, and I have now had it 3 times. One night i saw a post of a girl in JC doing it, and DROVE OVER just to confirm and do it. I felt disgusted and was worried. I then met a black girl in her 20s in paterson and we did the standard meet. After seeing her 2-3 times I pick her up at CVS and ask her "do we need anything" and she says no. We get a few blocks away and she says "condoms??" I said, i dont have any, she giggles and says "we dont really need em" and after a year with her, I have ED issues . I wish I had never started.
If I go to fast houses or AMP I wont stay up, so I just use my hand. The SICKNESS of thinking about this, is a perversion your brain wont be able to go BACK from. I read another forum, where the guys are doing BB with STREET WALKERS , thats how bad this sickness gets. If you can avoid it, never do it. theres no way it will end well.