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How often do the girls want YOU ?

PithMan69

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+1 if anyone cares to listen. I've been lurking since 2019 and had an fwb/fling situation with one of the spa girls. She was in her late 20s, Chinese, and rented a house with 3 other providers that worked in Flushing and Manhattan. We started to hang out after she asked for my number the day I received service from her. I worked the night shift at the time, so during my downtime at work and her's usually past 2~3 am -- we texted on the phone until we were both off from work. I used Google translator 1/3 of the time during the first couple of months, then she gradually learned English, and I picked up on a bit of Mandarin - which was nice. We still text here and there on WeChat, but she eventually saved up and started school in a different state.
Did you pay for your off hours service?
 

AMP Slayer

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In about 15 years of hobbying, I’ve only met 2 where we met outside for genuine friendship. It does happen I guess. One was an owner of a joint in Jackson heights and we are friends to this day. She told me the ins and outs. She made a ton of money and used ti take me to her interviews for new talent. Which basically was meeting girls at the McDonald’s on 82nd street off Roosevelt. The other was a worker and we used to hook up and go on coke benders together in flushing. Broke that off about 5 years ago bc she had a terrible gambling problem and had people looking for her which put me in a bad situation once. Both spoke perfect English (if that means anything). They never asked for money. They just wanted to hang out and hook up. Mamasan was married to older Jewish man with a useless dick. Other was younger and super attractive.
 

PithMan69

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Thanks guys. I really needed this thread to snap back into reality as of late. If there is anyone we can trust, it is each other. #saveabro
Always keep it transactional. Remember they are in this for the $$$. They aren't looking for mister right. They want mister right now. They get addicted to the money and fast life.
I don't pay them to stay, I pay them to leave should always be the mentality. Been in the game for alittle over 25 years now (started young, thank god they didnt ID lol) Had UTR setups etc.. And, Always kept it transactional. But cut that shit as soon as they started texting and trying to call first. Don't need that drama with the Significant other.
 

PithMan69

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Lots of these providers try to start something!! Your question deals with and affects a great variety of things.
Here is some I been thinking about:
Number one, they want to UPGRADE to additional money, and if they find you attractive even FUN.
The trigger point will always be money and it can or won't escalate from there.
In other words, lots of them want to minimize going from too
many overweight, sometimes cheap, complaining, old, weird, sweaty customers to just one that they think they can tolerate.
Number two: They would like me to believe that they want to be my girlfriend.
Hinting around the subject could mean an immediate extra 20 or 200, and they know what you need and want and will use it....part of the game.
On the other side of the question, we don't really want to get attached to a provider because we seek great sex without attachments, that's how we got here the first place.
It's also very easy to misread their approach, I had a provider once asked me in broken English if I want to go out to eat.
I perked up and said "let's go" , later I found out she only meant to ask me if I am hungry.
Providers didn't change and all of a sudden want to be your girlfriend, they just upped their game. Ahead of you, tjey more worried about how to send more money to their families back home or just simply how to get out of the racket they feel trapped in at times.
One thing for sure, these Asian girls don't want to be your girlfriend because you have a big dick...
I had a provider once ask if I can re-do her house if she would provide services regularly for me. I told her, I am sorry but, your great in bed. But, not that great. You wouldn't be able to afford my companies services LOL.
 

AutomaticSlim

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How can you claim you love someone that all you can do it talk baby talk to for the most part??
IMO there is no such thing as love.
It's a lie.
I want a hot, petite, young girl for cooking, cleaning and sex.
I couldn't care less her capacity for intellectual conversations as long as there is cooking, cleaning and sex.
But since I am not Channing Tatum or something, I cook and clean for myself and see providers for the sex part.
 

PithMan69

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The guardrails are completely for them, though.
They will want from you - everything.
They will be willing to give back to you - nothing.

Of course I speak only from my perspective. That of a lifelong single guy.
I am sure married men and guys with serious GFs put up plenty of guardrails, too.
The deal is this, you don't get a SO just for the sex. It's a someone who you have to take care, and they take care of you.
This game, is just a business transaction. I want to get a nut, you need $$$. Let's get this and forget about each other afterwards.
 

Rutts Hutt

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I used to have intellectual conversations with my ex and always found them enjoyable. My discussions with my Asian girlfriend aren't as "cerebral" partly because of some language limitations although she speaks English well. Their culture is based more on taking care of a man. She insists on giving me a mani,pedi every week and feels it's her responsibility to "massage" me when I desire and not just when she's in the mood. She has family responsibilities which limit our time together to weekends. She's a sweet gal and horny fuck that I am I still occasionally monger.
 

ScottyKing

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I used to have intellectual conversations with my ex and always found them enjoyable. My discussions with my Asian girlfriend aren't as "cerebral" partly because of some language limitations although she speaks English well. Their culture is based more on taking care of a man. She insists on giving me a mani,pedi every week and feels it's her responsibility to "massage" me when I desire and not just when she's in the mood. She has family responsibilities which limit our time together to weekends. She's a sweet gal and horny fuck that I am I still occasionally monger.

Like I said, to each their own......that sounds more like a servant than a partner to me. My priorities in a partner aren't things I can pay for. But like I said we're all different. Some want a genuine life partner. Others like the servant type thing. I get it. As long as everyones happy
 

Rutts Hutt

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Like I said, to each their own......that sounds more like a servant than a partner to me. My priorities in a partner aren't things I can pay for. But like I said we're all different. Some want a genuine life partner. Others like the servant type thing. I get it. As long as everyones happy
I was responding to the earlier comments discussing the requirements for a proper partner. I was pointing out that it is possible to have loving,sharing partner who in addition is desirous of fulfilling a man's baser needs. It's not necessary to get into the emotionally intimate intricacies of my relationship in this type of forum.
 

ChinatownVertigo

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Do you have her Kakao or WeChat? If you do, then ask her out for food and drinks.

During her days off, if she likes you, then she will make time for you.

Grab food and drinks and feel her out. If you two click, then go to her home or a hotel and have nice sex.

Enjoy the physical part and leave the emotional part out.
He said he is struggling keeping it transactional, why would you advise him to ask them out :ROFLMAO:
 

ChinatownVertigo

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I had a provider once ask if I can re-do her house if she would provide services regularly for me. I told her, I am sorry but, your great in bed. But, not that great. You wouldn't be able to afford my companies services LOL.
couldn't afford? They can make a lot of money, how do you think she got the house... But if she paid you in kind she cuts out the house, better business for her.
 

ChinatownVertigo

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I see your point. lol

I want him to meet them again and then just go on with his life. In other words, making an effort to keeping it simple without the emotional feelings.
Ahh so you're prescribing exposure therapy.

It could work, he's here feeling bad for their life circumstances, but then he sees that they drive a luxury car, own a home & have more in the bank than him lol..
 
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