Well, now I feel bad. I was trying to help. My problem, is I don't have a significant other, so I don't really appreciate all the risks.
If your monogamous honey finds out because you didn't use a condom, isn't that more likely than an org outing you? I can't believe all the PSE guys don't have a significant other. STD's can be treated
You know, all through history, half the appeal of strange pussy has always been the danger. It's the thrill of getting away with illicit sex, the risk of getting chased by her jealous boyfriend. Or, the urge to have unprotected sex is more important than getting pregnant or screwing up long term telationship. It's the trite movie scenes, where hubby drives up, and the young interloper goes out the back bedroom window, half naked, and his pants and shoes get thrown out after him.